Hillary McVeigh

It's pressured.

It's coming from lack.

It's coming from scarcity.

And so I recently spoke about this actually on my Instagram stories and a lot of you sent me messages about trust is actually, and I recently did a Brene Brown's dare to lead leadership training because we're really growing our team.

I'm also wanted to become more skilled as a leader and yeah,

be able to then teach inside my spaces on this and have another wisdom to teach people.

And one of the things that stood out for me was that there is a study where they measured that trust is informed within one second of meeting someone.

You are one second connected with their energy and your body determines whether they are trustworthy or not trustworthy.

So how does this inform us in business?

People are not trusting you based on just what you say and you telling them you can trust me.

No, it's whether they feel an energetic coherence there, whether they feel that you're a safe place, whether they feel that you have value, whether they feel if you are integrated and embodied.

And you can't fake this.

And this is where, again, nervous system work comes in.

But as well, when you are in coherence with who you are, what you're doing, if they feel the life force within you.

We want to be in connection where people feel safe.

Like, the divine, they feel the life force.

It's not like they're thinking, oh, I'm connecting with God in a way, we instantly go into this hierarchy way.

It's no, it's the God in me connects with the God in you, or the divine in me connects with the divine in you.

The life force in me connects with the life force in you.

The love in me connects with the love in you.