Hillary McVeigh

And so you start to self-abandon.

You start to think, okay, well, they're telling me one thing.

My intuition feels a different thing.

So I'm going to trust them because they're my caregivers.

You have to remember that our survival was dependent on our caregivers.

So if they're telling us one thing, but we intuitively feel another thing, in order to be safe, we have to trust them.

So I'm going to throw out my trust in myself.

And so that happens at like age two.

That happens when we're in our most, and that happens to everyone.

Again, it's a human experience.

No shame, no judgment on our parents.

This is a human experience.

We all have this.

And so it's, I think the biggest part of the journey is coming back to trust in self, trust in your intuition, which is connected to what doesn't make logical sense.

And we've all experienced it.

I was even talking about this recently with a friend, like she was speaking about not maybe meeting her person.

Or as well as speaking to another friend who was selling their place and, you know, it's not selling as quickly as it could be.

And...

It always happens that once you meet them or once it sells or once you get the job, you're like, why did I worry about it before?

I wish I could go back and not have worried and actually enjoyed the period rather than worry about it.