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I'm still really passionate about it.

But I could hear an energy of a little bit of resentment with the partner of like, well, if he's not putting in, I don't want to put any in.

if he's at 50% I'll only put 50% so then what happens more and more friction she's not feeling satisfied in her job even though she loves it she doesn't want to put energy in it because she's resentful of the business partner so if you put 50% into something you're only going to get 50% back

Well, so what do you say then to people who are, you know, say they're listening to this right now, they're really stuck, they're in a job that they don't like, or in a relationship they don't like, or they're facing some sort of roadblock that they're trying to work through.

It's really difficult for them to...

put in a lot of effort to that work life that relationship is that okay do they do they need to if it's not for them absolutely that's so different yeah so where where that's different to the example i was just saying it's like she wanted to be in this company i said do you love it she was lit up talking about it and so we spoke about like okay well the reason why you're filling off is your own energy

And it's like, we can't control other people.

We can't control circumstances.

And, you know, we put it out there of like, okay, well, how would it feel if you took over?

How would it feel if, you know, you shifted in the business so that you could incorporate She's Learning Human Design now into your business?

All the things.

And so we can only control ourselves.

We can't control our external environment.

We can't change the external environment.

You can only change it through your own inner change.

So with the example that you just said before, you know, when life starts to show you or give you other options or opportunities or invitations, it's like it keeps on knocking at the door.

You know, it might come in with different ideas, different interests.

And when we don't listen, it starts to come through with the shitty boss or

or the thing's not feeling good at work, or the thing's not feeling good in the relationship, because we have to remember the whole point and life's intention and the universe's intention is for you to be in your highest, truest self, and on your highest, most fulfilling path.

So how I like to see it now is that the universe basically orchestrates your boss to start being passive-aggressive.