Holly Wainwright

It's just, it's very powerful.

It's very clarifying.

And then to see him at his living wake and he says, you know, at wakes people always say, oh, he would have loved me.

And he says, no, I wanted to be.

And I just think it's very refreshing.

I think, you know, as I say, I didn't have a direct listenership with James Valentine, but people who do and people I know who've worked with him said he brought joy all the time.

And it feels like a gift to be so honest and so open and so clear-eyed in talking about this thing that nobody wants to talk about.

It's like...

the last incredible gift that a great communicator could give.

And his family is so amazing.

And I really recommend watching the show.

I love that his kids say that this was perfect for him, in particular, this living weight, because he loved being center of attention.

He loved a party.

He loved being told how great he was.

I love the way they talk.

You know that families are really kind of, I mean, I'm sure no families are perfect, but they're really healthy and loving when they can just call out that stuff about you and be like, he would love this because he just loves everybody telling him how great he is.

Something completely different.

There was celebrity baby news this week that I must mark because it was interesting.

Cameron Diaz and Benji Madden just welcomed their third child.

And it's interesting because Cameron is 53.