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That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

spat on his jersey, and then Andrew goes, immediately shows the ref, like, ref, dude just spat on my jersey, right? He goes, look, it's right here. And the ref goes, I didn't see it, so I can't really do anything about it, right? So they kept playing the game. And I said, on the sideline, because I heard this thing, I said, did somebody just spit on my kid? And I said it loud.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

spat on his jersey, and then Andrew goes, immediately shows the ref, like, ref, dude just spat on my jersey, right? He goes, look, it's right here. And the ref goes, I didn't see it, so I can't really do anything about it, right? So they kept playing the game. And I said, on the sideline, because I heard this thing, I said, did somebody just spit on my kid? And I said it loud.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

spat on his jersey, and then Andrew goes, immediately shows the ref, like, ref, dude just spat on my jersey, right? He goes, look, it's right here. And the ref goes, I didn't see it, so I can't really do anything about it, right? So they kept playing the game. And I said, on the sideline, because I heard this thing, I said, did somebody just spit on my kid? And I said it loud.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

And the kid who did, he goes, nobody spat on your son, bro. You need to calm down, right? And I was like, all right, I can't get in a shouting match with a kid. You know, you're not going to do that or what have you. Then after the game was over, AJB, Andrew wound up telling me that like the kid also called him a nigger, right?

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

And the kid who did, he goes, nobody spat on your son, bro. You need to calm down, right? And I was like, all right, I can't get in a shouting match with a kid. You know, you're not going to do that or what have you. Then after the game was over, AJB, Andrew wound up telling me that like the kid also called him a nigger, right?

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

And the kid who did, he goes, nobody spat on your son, bro. You need to calm down, right? And I was like, all right, I can't get in a shouting match with a kid. You know, you're not going to do that or what have you. Then after the game was over, AJB, Andrew wound up telling me that like the kid also called him a nigger, right?

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

But he said he didn't tell me until after the game because he knew how upset I was about it already. So... After the game, I'm walking to talk to the ref. And the coach is like, you can't talk to the refs one-on-one. And I was like, I got to do something. And he's like, no, there's a whole protocol. Please don't get us in trouble. And he's just doing his job as a coach. He's a young man, good kid.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

But he said he didn't tell me until after the game because he knew how upset I was about it already. So... After the game, I'm walking to talk to the ref. And the coach is like, you can't talk to the refs one-on-one. And I was like, I got to do something. And he's like, no, there's a whole protocol. Please don't get us in trouble. And he's just doing his job as a coach. He's a young man, good kid.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

But he said he didn't tell me until after the game because he knew how upset I was about it already. So... After the game, I'm walking to talk to the ref. And the coach is like, you can't talk to the refs one-on-one. And I was like, I got to do something. And he's like, no, there's a whole protocol. Please don't get us in trouble. And he's just doing his job as a coach. He's a young man, good kid.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

But there has to be a certain sort of special extenuating circumstances where it's not business as usual.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

But there has to be a certain sort of special extenuating circumstances where it's not business as usual.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

But there has to be a certain sort of special extenuating circumstances where it's not business as usual.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

there should be you know what I'm saying like it's assault it's literally assault you know and so I'm just and I talk to him and I say hey man I'm sorry that you have to experience this right that this had to happen and like and you try to and he's probably more resilient than I am to be honest with you.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

there should be you know what I'm saying like it's assault it's literally assault you know and so I'm just and I talk to him and I say hey man I'm sorry that you have to experience this right that this had to happen and like and you try to and he's probably more resilient than I am to be honest with you.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

there should be you know what I'm saying like it's assault it's literally assault you know and so I'm just and I talk to him and I say hey man I'm sorry that you have to experience this right that this had to happen and like and you try to and he's probably more resilient than I am to be honest with you.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

He's sort of like, nah, dude, it's disappointing that things like this happening still because it's 2025, but I guess it's part of the game. Because I also don't want him to feel like there's no recourse, that you just have to accept it and sort of keep going with it. So I'm just curious. Or to think that it's part of the game. It's not part of the game. No, it's not part of the game.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

He's sort of like, nah, dude, it's disappointing that things like this happening still because it's 2025, but I guess it's part of the game. Because I also don't want him to feel like there's no recourse, that you just have to accept it and sort of keep going with it. So I'm just curious. Or to think that it's part of the game. It's not part of the game. No, it's not part of the game.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

He's sort of like, nah, dude, it's disappointing that things like this happening still because it's 2025, but I guess it's part of the game. Because I also don't want him to feel like there's no recourse, that you just have to accept it and sort of keep going with it. So I'm just curious. Or to think that it's part of the game. It's not part of the game. No, it's not part of the game.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

How did you deal with your anger? I'm gonna talk about that in the next episode.

That Was Us
Becoming Toby | "Toby" (305) with special guest Director Chris Koch

How did you deal with your anger? I'm gonna talk about that in the next episode.