Ian Crossland
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Podcast Appearances
This is crazy.
He's going pro, man, for sure.
We were wingmen in it, you know what I mean?
That's the power of tribe.
We were like, we are going to glaze this guy up.
Because, you know, we know what's going on.
None of the other guys were going to make a move on the girl that he was inviting to a date.
You know what I mean?
We've got to make it seem like he's the greatest and all the guys look up to him.
I actually have advice for any younger guys out there who are concerned about the friend zone.
Really great advice for you.
If you are romantically interested, I'm not saying sexually, I'm saying romantically, which is both for companionship and for sex or whatever, romantically interested in a woman, and she is not interested in you,
You give her a hug and you say, we shouldn't see each other anymore, but I wish you the best and leave.
That's the best thing you can do.
It is not good for either person to be forced into a relationship that has not worked for each other.
And there's too many guys that fall into this stupid whiny loser guy trap where the girl says, we can't be friends.
It's like, listen, I want something you don't want and you want something I don't want.
So it's just, it's an incompatibility.
There's too much of this feminism where the perception given in media is that the man who wants more is selfish and should just accept being friends.
And I'm like, it takes two to tango, baby.