Ian Crossland

And then there's the brain, which is like, I want a stable, secure thing.

If you are nice to me during the day, that's what I want.

And it's like...

you want an animal that's gonna protect you.

And like, if I have to kill to do it, that's what you want, because that's what you need.

That's there too, you know?

I keep thinking about this, the fall of the Soviet Union as being kind of a turning point for the limpness of the American male and probably female.

Like, we live in fantasy candy land since 89.

Since the fall of the Berlin Wall, every American was like, we own the world now.

We don't have to fight to protect.

We have machines that'll do that for us.

And like...

Dudes kind of just slithered into their video games and their entertainment.

You know, I kind of what you were saying, Phil, about like how the woman will aggravate the guy to get them to do a thing and the guy has to stay calm.

I think that it's like training for kids.

Now you got a kid.

You can talk more on this.

It's like the woman will press the guy and she's like simulating what the kid is going to do to the guy because the kid's a wild animal at first.

Like it's figuring out at once it takes.

And so you as a man have to stay calm.