Ian Crossland

push back and say, no, this is the path and you're following me regardless.

And then deal with the outcome and not flip out.

And it's same for when the guy will push a woman

there's a way that the man will test his woman too.

And it's like, it's the way that you would push against a child.

Anyway, I'll think of that second part later.

I think a lot of marital chaos is actually training for how are you going to handle this wild animal raising.

Can you handle it?

You know what I mean?

I've been having this mind –

example that I do in my where I think about it and like okay it's the year 1620 AD and the peasant woman has her husband who's got like warts on his face maybe he's got some weird disease but they love each other so much and he's sickly and he's farming and then the prince comes and he's this evil wicked man but he wants her he wants her to be his wife and she's like I can stay with my sick husband who will probably die and not give me a child or I can go be with this rich asshole and like how could you say no to the rich asshole like you would

Obviously, the guy's going to give you money and healthy food for your healthy children, a prolonged life.

It's called hypergamy.

It is.

And so that's like in reality, you have to kind of even if you're the poor farmer, you've got to somehow elicit the strength of the prince.

And people think, oh, if I get rich, that'll be.

But it's not just rich.

You know, it's power.

Oh, you knew I was talking about actually talking about Prince the whole time.

Look at that.