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Ilana

πŸ‘€ Speaker
5169 total appearances

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Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

That's incredible. And that's such a powerful tool that we use in coaching, you know, and just seeing your questions are brilliant. Talk to me because you have these cards also for relationship, right? And to better questions around relationship. These are questions that we need to ask ourselves, first of all.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

That's incredible. And that's such a powerful tool that we use in coaching, you know, and just seeing your questions are brilliant. Talk to me because you have these cards also for relationship, right? And to better questions around relationship. These are questions that we need to ask ourselves, first of all.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I think this is really important because if you ask yourself crappy questions, you're going to also ask the relationship around you crappy questions many times. But Talk to us a little bit how this changes when you're talking about relationship and better questions around those relationships.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I think this is really important because if you ask yourself crappy questions, you're going to also ask the relationship around you crappy questions many times. But Talk to us a little bit how this changes when you're talking about relationship and better questions around those relationships.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Amazing. Because that dictates also the intention that dictates what we're going through together.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Amazing. Because that dictates also the intention that dictates what we're going through together.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I think that is key, right? And I think that's what you talked about the intention, right? I mean, if we're coming with a very clear intention of, I just going to get rid of this and, you know, we're going to suffer through this together. We're going to part ways.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

And I think that is key, right? And I think that's what you talked about the intention, right? I mean, if we're coming with a very clear intention of, I just going to get rid of this and, you know, we're going to suffer through this together. We're going to part ways.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

It's a very different intention versus I going to come with a lot of love and curiosity to see if there's a way to make this better or if there's a way to make this.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

It's a very different intention versus I going to come with a lot of love and curiosity to see if there's a way to make this better or if there's a way to make this.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I actually want to take you there because I think what you just said is so, so, so critical because I think it's the difference between am I listening to only my questions and what am I saying next or am I actually present in a conversation? And I want to take you there for a second because you actually had, for me, it was a powerful conversation on your YouTube channel with your father.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

I actually want to take you there because I think what you just said is so, so, so critical because I think it's the difference between am I listening to only my questions and what am I saying next or am I actually present in a conversation? And I want to take you there for a second because you actually had, for me, it was a powerful conversation on your YouTube channel with your father.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Your YouTube channel has over almost, I don't know, a million subscribers. It's called the Skin Deep YouTube channel. And you are not afraid to ask your father some really, really hard questions, which I think a lot of us are shying away from, especially with parents, especially with loved ones. We try to go through life ignoring some of these, but that actually just stretches the wounds.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Your YouTube channel has over almost, I don't know, a million subscribers. It's called the Skin Deep YouTube channel. And you are not afraid to ask your father some really, really hard questions, which I think a lot of us are shying away from, especially with parents, especially with loved ones. We try to go through life ignoring some of these, but that actually just stretches the wounds.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Can you talk a little bit about that, Paz?

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Can you talk a little bit about that, Paz?

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Amazing. So Topaz, what drives you every day to work on Skiing Deep, to work on the YouTube? I mean, entrepreneurship is hard, right? I mean, there's just a lot of things going into it. What drives you?

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Amazing. So Topaz, what drives you every day to work on Skiing Deep, to work on the YouTube? I mean, entrepreneurship is hard, right? I mean, there's just a lot of things going into it. What drives you?

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Tapas, can we go there for a second? So one of the things that our listeners will relate to, and I personally had this issue because I had this big heart, I would volunteer and mentor and advise people and advise companies and go and hustle and do all these things. But at the end of the day, I would come home and I was just like, how much money did you make this month? Zero. Great job, Ilana.

Leap Academy with Ilana Golan
If You Want to Have Life-Changing Conversations, Ask These Tough Questions | E74 | Topaz Adizes

Tapas, can we go there for a second? So one of the things that our listeners will relate to, and I personally had this issue because I had this big heart, I would volunteer and mentor and advise people and advise companies and go and hustle and do all these things. But at the end of the day, I would come home and I was just like, how much money did you make this month? Zero. Great job, Ilana.