Ilana

It's not going to get better. What do you say to people? How do you create, again, the space? And how do you create the questions that actually start creating results?

It's not going to get better. What do you say to people? How do you create, again, the space? And how do you create the questions that actually start creating results?

Absolutely.

Absolutely.

Ooh, powerful. Tell me more.

Ooh, powerful. Tell me more.

That's the intention. Yeah.

That's the intention. Yeah.

Right.

Right.

So for me, there's two things that come up here when we're talking about this. So first of all, It feels like a little bit of a muscle when you wake up in the morning and you feel, sorry, shitty. There's a lot of crap going on, right? How do you train yourself to ask better questions? Because your instinct is about, oh darn, I need to go through da, da, da, da, da.

So for me, there's two things that come up here when we're talking about this. So first of all, It feels like a little bit of a muscle when you wake up in the morning and you feel, sorry, shitty. There's a lot of crap going on, right? How do you train yourself to ask better questions? Because your instinct is about, oh darn, I need to go through da, da, da, da, da.

Your brain doesn't necessarily go to empowering questions, right? So how do, first of all, do you build that muscle to start thinking about smarter questions, better questions?

Your brain doesn't necessarily go to empowering questions, right? So how do, first of all, do you build that muscle to start thinking about smarter questions, better questions?

Yeah, uh-huh.

Yeah, uh-huh.

Let's go there to pause because I think that's really, really interesting. And by the way, you have a full book about 12 questions for love. Talk to me a little bit about how do you construct better questions? Because I think we all want to, but we sometimes have no clue. So let's start with ourself and then let's talk about relationship. I think both of them are very interesting for us.

Let's go there to pause because I think that's really, really interesting. And by the way, you have a full book about 12 questions for love. Talk to me a little bit about how do you construct better questions? Because I think we all want to, but we sometimes have no clue. So let's start with ourself and then let's talk about relationship. I think both of them are very interesting for us.

I'm literally writing.

I'm literally writing.