Issa Rae

For sure.

That's why I'm like, you have to be honest about like, hey girl, like I'm, I have a lot on my plate and I'm, that's hard to say. Because I was, yeah, I was going to say like, I just want to be a dinner friend. And I guess in those situations where I've been confronted about like, hey, because I have been, I feel like I give you more energy. That I have just been like, I've blamed it on work.

That's why I'm like, you have to be honest about like, hey girl, like I'm, I have a lot on my plate and I'm, that's hard to say. Because I was, yeah, I was going to say like, I just want to be a dinner friend. And I guess in those situations where I've been confronted about like, hey, because I have been, I feel like I give you more energy. That I have just been like, I've blamed it on work.

That's why I'm like, you have to be honest about like, hey girl, like I'm, I have a lot on my plate and I'm, that's hard to say. Because I was, yeah, I was going to say like, I just want to be a dinner friend. And I guess in those situations where I've been confronted about like, hey, because I have been, I feel like I give you more energy. That I have just been like, I've blamed it on work.

I've blamed it on I'm busy, but I haven't said I don't want to devote the time to this. Saying that I have work is the excuse and they can choose to pleasantly ghost me and I wouldn't be as affected. The fact that Eva is actually affected by this is what's confusing me because you... you didn't dedicate the energy to want to be her friend.

I've blamed it on I'm busy, but I haven't said I don't want to devote the time to this. Saying that I have work is the excuse and they can choose to pleasantly ghost me and I wouldn't be as affected. The fact that Eva is actually affected by this is what's confusing me because you... you didn't dedicate the energy to want to be her friend.

I've blamed it on I'm busy, but I haven't said I don't want to devote the time to this. Saying that I have work is the excuse and they can choose to pleasantly ghost me and I wouldn't be as affected. The fact that Eva is actually affected by this is what's confusing me because you... you didn't dedicate the energy to want to be her friend.

And I'd imagine that you do have a set of friends that are hired to your friends that do get your time and energy, that you do consider those people. Or you're just a loner and don't know how to make friends. And that's a whole different situation. But I'm confused by the loss because you had this person who cared about you, invested in you.

And I'd imagine that you do have a set of friends that are hired to your friends that do get your time and energy, that you do consider those people. Or you're just a loner and don't know how to make friends. And that's a whole different situation. But I'm confused by the loss because you had this person who cared about you, invested in you.

And I'd imagine that you do have a set of friends that are hired to your friends that do get your time and energy, that you do consider those people. Or you're just a loner and don't know how to make friends. And that's a whole different situation. But I'm confused by the loss because you had this person who cared about you, invested in you.

Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah.

And make some friends with some guys.

And make some friends with some guys.

And make some friends with some guys.

But even hearing you say this, you also have to have the recognition that maybe you're also not compatible. Because some of it, some friendships, the most beautiful friendships are just instinctive. They're instinctual. You don't have to. You don't have to try. You are the yin to the yang. You fit in like puzzle pieces.

But even hearing you say this, you also have to have the recognition that maybe you're also not compatible. Because some of it, some friendships, the most beautiful friendships are just instinctive. They're instinctual. You don't have to. You don't have to try. You are the yin to the yang. You fit in like puzzle pieces.

But even hearing you say this, you also have to have the recognition that maybe you're also not compatible. Because some of it, some friendships, the most beautiful friendships are just instinctive. They're instinctual. You don't have to. You don't have to try. You are the yin to the yang. You fit in like puzzle pieces.

And then when there are missteps, you can talk about them comfortably without necessarily feeling like you're offending. And this feels very much like Eva had to try too hard to be something she was not to be something that she wanted and that she didn't really want and so I think considering that and that goes back to being honest with yourself but