Jackie Oshry

And I had never really like thought of it like that.

And then of course someone was kind of like, well, my abuser, that's not what we're talking about, of course.

You know, people get divorced for just like, you know, maybe we rush into things, maybe we're not compatible.

We're not happy.

And so it was just a bunch of girls being like, I think about this all the time.

Like, because it's so heart wrenching doing those drop-offs and it's just like, it never goes well, even with two well-intended people.

Like it's just, that's the nature of divorce.

And she was like, being in a bad marriage is nothing compared to having your kids 50% of the time.

And I feel like that's kind of Jen and Ben.

I don't think that there's anything nefarious going on.

I do think they got married too young.

I do think they're not compatible.

But like at this point, is it worth the alternative?

I don't know.

Well, that's so true.

Getting married at 19 and having a baby at 20 is whack.

Like it's seriously whack.

I think it leaves a lot of room for like her to be like struggling with her sense of self.

But I don't buy into the illusion that you have to leave a marriage or a relationship to discover new parts of yourself.

I hate that shit.