Jade Warshaw

I know that's, you already know that.

All right, let's roll out to one of my favorite places in the United States, San Antonio, Texas.

Man, they do queso right.

And let's talk to Harley.

What's up, Harley?

Very cool.

The first thing I'll tell you is there's some...

there's some, what I've called nerd work.

There's some research data that some researchers went down the rabbit hole and trying to see if, was there a causal or a correlative link between couples who shared their accounts and couples who didn't.

And not to our surprise, but to surprise out in the world, there was.

Couples who shared a single account were forced to make planning decisions together.

And

um because there was the artificial like uh environment that was the research study there wasn't a way out of it so they'd agree to do this and so that forced them to sit down at a table and figure out what do we value organic foods or non-organic foods um this kind of car that kind of car the the temperature at 78 or the temperature at 72 which is going to cost us an extra this much money every month they were forced to have those kind of conversations that so many couples just blow by and um

their relationship quality was higher.

And so I think the, in and of itself, sharing the account

That isn't the magic sauce.

What's the magic sauce is it forces you to have big, real, authentic, deep conversations about how y'all are going to do life together.

And that leads to your next question.

The fact that you already have this level of self-awareness is pretty impressive.

Most people call us seven to 10 years into their marriage and they're like, we hate each other because he always tries to hit me over the head with his spreadsheets or, you