Jade Warshaw

Something's going on here.

I'm going to break up the money talk just for a minute because I want to go back to the marriage talk.

I've been married for almost 20 years.

It'll be 20 years next year with my husband.

And one of the reasons you get married is, yes, you want a level of commitment.

You want to know, like, this is my person.

But a bigger part of that is you see the ability to build something bigger than yourselves together over time.

And there's a shared vision that's there.

And you spend the years of your marriage aligning on that vision and going towards it together.

That's one of the joys.

That's why you have children.

That's why you buy a house.

You're just creating this life together that you both visualize and both agree on and both believe in it so much that you work hard to achieve it.

And what I hear right now, and this is no, this is not meant for shame or indictment or anything like that.

It's just, you called us and I'm letting you know what I observed because it's still really early and still very, very fixable.

What I hear right now is two people who agreed to live together, but that's kind of it.

And so you've got goals and he's got goals and you spend your money like this and he spends his money like that.

And I ain't got to tell you what I do and she don't have to tell me what she did, right?

And it will be impossible to build anything like that.

And I think you're starting to butt up against that.