Jade

I'm shaking out of my pants right now.

I'm so nervous.

Well, I'm really sick, so forgive my voice.

I might be a little crackly.

Yes, I'm going to jump in.

My question is, how can I confront my husband about his habit of lying without making it feel like an attack?

That is correct.

So, well, I don't know if it's relevant.

He's ex-military, current law enforcement.

Yeah, okay, agree.

But the emotion side of it is very lacking.

I had kind of written down, I didn't want to get sidetracked, but we were really good friends growing up.

And during that time I would pick up on little things that would get elaborated on or exaggerated about and elaborated on.

Yeah.

But at the time, you know, we're kids kind of just wrote it off, didn't pay attention to it.

Like thought he was impressed, trying to impress me.

Um,

And after we got married, I kind of still continued to pick up on the things.

And I noticed some of them are motivated about or they're motivated about him trying to make himself look better.

Or some of them make absolutely no sense.