Jake

So I've gotten a little bit better at least with just kind of being able to hold interesting conversation, asking intriguing questions, that kind of stuff. But the conversation just kind of goes like I'm talking to like just anybody else. If it's a friend, if it's a family member, like it's like I don't really change a whole lot with the exception of an occasional comment.

So I've gotten a little bit better at least with just kind of being able to hold interesting conversation, asking intriguing questions, that kind of stuff. But the conversation just kind of goes like I'm talking to like just anybody else. If it's a friend, if it's a family member, like it's like I don't really change a whole lot with the exception of an occasional comment.

So I've gotten a little bit better at least with just kind of being able to hold interesting conversation, asking intriguing questions, that kind of stuff. But the conversation just kind of goes like I'm talking to like just anybody else. If it's a friend, if it's a family member, like it's like I don't really change a whole lot with the exception of an occasional comment.

So flirting and basically the teasing aspect is challenging for me. And the funny thing is, is I can do it if somebody else initiates it. Like I have a pretty decent idea of how to respond with that kind of stuff. But for whatever reason, I just kind of have a block when it comes to figuring out, okay, like not only when to initiate it, but what are some like kind of good times to do that?

So flirting and basically the teasing aspect is challenging for me. And the funny thing is, is I can do it if somebody else initiates it. Like I have a pretty decent idea of how to respond with that kind of stuff. But for whatever reason, I just kind of have a block when it comes to figuring out, okay, like not only when to initiate it, but what are some like kind of good times to do that?

So flirting and basically the teasing aspect is challenging for me. And the funny thing is, is I can do it if somebody else initiates it. Like I have a pretty decent idea of how to respond with that kind of stuff. But for whatever reason, I just kind of have a block when it comes to figuring out, okay, like not only when to initiate it, but what are some like kind of good times to do that?

So it's kind of like even if I'm on the date and I've peaked the woman's interest a little bit and I'm just kind of getting to know her a little bit, it's more of a get to know you rather than kind of building that romantic tension, so to speak. And I've definitely noticed that because I've gotten a lot of like, hey, this was great, but I'm just not feeling that spark.

So it's kind of like even if I'm on the date and I've peaked the woman's interest a little bit and I'm just kind of getting to know her a little bit, it's more of a get to know you rather than kind of building that romantic tension, so to speak. And I've definitely noticed that because I've gotten a lot of like, hey, this was great, but I'm just not feeling that spark.

So it's kind of like even if I'm on the date and I've peaked the woman's interest a little bit and I'm just kind of getting to know her a little bit, it's more of a get to know you rather than kind of building that romantic tension, so to speak. And I've definitely noticed that because I've gotten a lot of like, hey, this was great, but I'm just not feeling that spark.

So intentionally compliments, I've started to do a little bit more from like when I was, I can't, I think when I was reading your book,

So intentionally compliments, I've started to do a little bit more from like when I was, I can't, I think when I was reading your book,

So intentionally compliments, I've started to do a little bit more from like when I was, I can't, I think when I was reading your book,

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So essentially it was like, I got to the homework assignment on one of the chapters or it was like, give compliments. So I was trying to be a little bit more aware of like, okay, like I saw a girl today that was at my dog daycare that had a little tattoo of a paw on her arm. And so I'm like, okay, this kind of sounds like, it seems like it's the Her dog. That was my assumption.

So essentially it was like, I got to the homework assignment on one of the chapters or it was like, give compliments. So I was trying to be a little bit more aware of like, okay, like I saw a girl today that was at my dog daycare that had a little tattoo of a paw on her arm. And so I'm like, okay, this kind of sounds like, it seems like it's the Her dog. That was my assumption.

So essentially it was like, I got to the homework assignment on one of the chapters or it was like, give compliments. So I was trying to be a little bit more aware of like, okay, like I saw a girl today that was at my dog daycare that had a little tattoo of a paw on her arm. And so I'm like, okay, this kind of sounds like, it seems like it's the Her dog. That was my assumption.

I'm like, oh, is that the tattoo of your dog's paw? That is really cool. And she got like really excited and started talking about it. So I've been doing good with that. And occasionally, like when people initiate a little bit of teasing or a little bit of like sarcastic sense of humor, I can kind of dish it right back.

I'm like, oh, is that the tattoo of your dog's paw? That is really cool. And she got like really excited and started talking about it. So I've been doing good with that. And occasionally, like when people initiate a little bit of teasing or a little bit of like sarcastic sense of humor, I can kind of dish it right back.