Tongue-Tied with Women? Become a Funny Flirt with 3 Simple Moves and Get Her Giggling! (Live Coaching with Jake)
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Why do women sometimes feel no connection with men?
You might find out her first concert was Nickelback. And you could say, what? Your first concert was Nickelback? Well, you know why they call them Nickelback, right? Their music's so bad, everybody wants their Nickelback when the show's over. Welcome back to the How to Get a Girlfriend podcast. I am your host, dating coach and author, Conal Barrett. I am here to help you flirt with confidence and get a great girlfriend all by being authentic. Women like you for you. No sketchy pickup artist moves needed. I coach gentlemen, good guys, intellectual types, white collar guys, sometimes shy introverts. And I have a shy introvert here today for you to meet. You're about to listen to a live coaching session I just did with my brand new client, a guy named Jake. Jake is 31. He's an educator. He lives down in the South and he is a very intellectual, logical guy. And he struggles to be flirtatious on dates and when talking to women. He struggles with what to say, the right thing to say, and he wants to be funnier.
He wants to be more charming and funny and more flirtatiously attractive to women. And that's one of my specialties. I love guys getting really good at banter, at being able to make sparks happen on dates so we can stay out of that friend zone. And you're going to get to meet Jake today. This is a really good episode or a good coaching session that I recorded with his permission, of course. And you probably are going to relate to Jake because he tends to default to analytical, logical conversation, but not quite know how to get on that flirty, funny wavelength. And today I talked to him or in this session, this coaching session, We went over some three or four of the core basic ways to be funny and flirty with women, being sarcastic, being playfully teasing.
I also gave him a real simple way to never run out of things to say on dates so that he and you can make women laugh, but do it in a flirtatious way. So being funny, being flirty, it's very learnable. So stay tuned for that. And a quick housekeeping thing. I'm about to take three months off of coaching And just start writing my second book. My first book, Dating Sucks But You Don't, came out about four years ago. I'm about to take three months off to work on my second book. My second book is all about flirting. So I'm about to close my coaching slots. But I will be coaching for another few weeks.
What are effective ways to tease women?
So if you like this podcast and you are looking to talk to me about how dating coaching works and you want to go from struggling with flirting and what to say or just struggling with self-confidence and becoming a lot more confident and really good at flirting and making some sparks fly like Jake is going to learn today, just go to datingtransformation.com. You can book a free call with me and you and I will get on the phone and I'll give you a plan. And we'll figure out if dating coaching is right for you. And even if we don't work together, you'll get a free fun call out of it. And I can help you get clear on how to get your girlfriend. So go to datingtransformation.com and book a free call with me because I'm about to stop taking clients for several months while I write book number two. Okay, let's get to it. Let's talk to my client, Jake. Enjoy. All right, Jake, let's get to it, man. What are the dating problems you're looking to fix? What are some of your goals? How can I help you, man?
Yeah, so, Connell, one of the things I've been noticing I've been struggling with probably for a very long time, but it's just become more noticeable to me now that I've really kind of started to focus on dating a little bit, is kind of initiating humor, flirtation, teasing, that sort of thing, just in not only just day-to-day conversations, but specifically with women that I want to be dating or women that I am dating. So I've gotten a little bit better at least with just kind of being able to hold interesting conversation, asking intriguing questions, that kind of stuff. But the conversation just kind of goes like I'm talking to like just anybody else. If it's a friend, if it's a family member, like it's like I don't really change a whole lot with the exception of an occasional comment.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
Why do women sometimes feel no connection with men?
0:00–2:58
2
What are effective ways to tease women?
2:58–5:34
3
How should sarcasm be used on dates?
5:34–6:18
4
What technique helps to never run out of things to say?
6:18–7:12
5
How to excel in speed-dating events?
7:12–10:28
6
What first-date question should you always ask?
10:28–12:47
7
How can one unlock true charisma while being authentic?
12:47–15:57
8
What is a simple move to get out of your head on dates?
15:57–1:00:25
Speakers
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