Jake

Yes, yes.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

Yeah, yeah.

Exactly.

Exactly.

Exactly.

Yeah, I mean, the first thing was just A few tweaks to the dating apps and starting to getting some matches. That was... a big shift and I could finally kind of start to, instead of just thinking about what I would do and what I could do right and wrong, it was, it was actually, I was out there going on dates and getting to talk to you about it.

Yeah, I mean, the first thing was just A few tweaks to the dating apps and starting to getting some matches. That was... a big shift and I could finally kind of start to, instead of just thinking about what I would do and what I could do right and wrong, it was, it was actually, I was out there going on dates and getting to talk to you about it.

Yeah, I mean, the first thing was just A few tweaks to the dating apps and starting to getting some matches. That was... a big shift and I could finally kind of start to, instead of just thinking about what I would do and what I could do right and wrong, it was, it was actually, I was out there going on dates and getting to talk to you about it.

And, and really, I think one of the big things that was helpful was, you know, you really, it was almost, uh, a chore at the beginning but you were you were just constantly making me do the heads and tails analysis what went well what went bad And I think that really helped to force out that negative voice in my head and really got to also just go out and enjoy some fun experiences.

And, and really, I think one of the big things that was helpful was, you know, you really, it was almost, uh, a chore at the beginning but you were you were just constantly making me do the heads and tails analysis what went well what went bad And I think that really helped to force out that negative voice in my head and really got to also just go out and enjoy some fun experiences.

And, and really, I think one of the big things that was helpful was, you know, you really, it was almost, uh, a chore at the beginning but you were you were just constantly making me do the heads and tails analysis what went well what went bad And I think that really helped to force out that negative voice in my head and really got to also just go out and enjoy some fun experiences.

Yes.

Yes.

Yes.

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think really being able to just focus on it was, was a big deal. So, uh, you know, I've got a full-time job and everything. So, but I was going out multiple times a week, at least, you know, two or three times. I, I like to try to do a sort of a nighttime, um, you know, scene and a daytime scene, at least, at least once a week. Um,

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think really being able to just focus on it was, was a big deal. So, uh, you know, I've got a full-time job and everything. So, but I was going out multiple times a week, at least, you know, two or three times. I, I like to try to do a sort of a nighttime, um, you know, scene and a daytime scene, at least, at least once a week. Um,

Yeah. Yeah. I mean, I think really being able to just focus on it was, was a big deal. So, uh, you know, I've got a full-time job and everything. So, but I was going out multiple times a week, at least, you know, two or three times. I, I like to try to do a sort of a nighttime, um, you know, scene and a daytime scene, at least, at least once a week. Um,

Yeah, I would sometimes go out to bookstores or go out to the stores. Yeah, just getting in the rhythm of just chatting girls up, saying like, hey, what do you think of this jacket? Or what do you think about these things? And when I could get out of my head and just kind of – be present and just ask things that were on my mind, the connection started happening so much faster.