From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!
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What struggles did Jake face before finding love?
And Jake just became so much more confident, good at flirting, good at approaching, a lot more dates from the dating apps. And I'm really proud to say that working with But by working with Jake, we were able to get him this incredible girlfriend. And that's what this podcast is called. It's called How to Get a Girlfriend. So you're about to listen to a fun conversation I had with Jake, basically all about the problems he had and how we fixed them. and how he was able to get a great girlfriend. And along the way, don't just listen to Jake's successes, but also listen to the insights, the tips. I share a lot of insights, so does Jake, by the way, in this episode about how to talk to women on first dates, about how to get more matches, about having the right mindset, what I call the higher self mindset. that radically authentic self, that most confident, badass version of you, that's the guy women are going to be most attracted to.
So please enjoy this conversation with my former client, Jake, who now has a great girlfriend. He's going to tell you how he brought her into his life. And going forward on this podcast, I want to help you get a great girlfriend. So listen to Jake and I talk about everything from flirting to dating to creed. The band Creed. Enjoy. Hey, Jake. Happy holidays, man. Long time no chat.
How did Connell help Jake boost his confidence?
Yeah, same to you. Great to talk to you. Yeah, thank you so much for being here. Our listener is super psyched to hear about your journey from struggling in a lot of ways. with women and struggling with approaching and what to talk about on dates to now having this incredible, incredible girlfriend named Allie. We're going to talk about you and her shortly, but I thought you and I might begin at the beginning. When you first came to me, you reached out and booked a free call with me and said, hey, Connell, I need some help with some things. What were some of the things you were most struggling with when we first spoke?
Yeah, totally. So it's crazy to think where I'm at now compared to where I was a year ago. So, I mean, I had, I'd kind of been reading through your book and, you know, I just, for, for many years, I'd been out of college for seven, eight years and just really struggling to find a good rhythm with dating. I would occasionally go on dates, maybe a couple of dates per year.
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Chapters
8 chapters
1
What struggles did Jake face before finding love?
2:12–3:43
2
How did Connell help Jake boost his confidence?
3:43–12:29
3
What is the '80-20' flirting rule?
12:29–14:50
4
What are some key moments from Jake's first dates?
14:50–24:19
5
How can you shift your mindset for dating success?
24:19–30:30
6
What are practical dating tips for shy guys?
30:30
7
How did Jake go from zero to five dates in a week?
27:48
8
What is Connell's number one daily dating tip?
20:44–1:05:34
Speakers
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