Jake
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Yeah, a lot of times I'm like, I sometimes try to think about like, it's hard to imagine you know, going 10 years without a, without a, without a girlfriend. So it's, it's, uh, it's awesome. It's fun.
Go ahead. Um, I mean, it, it's, it's, uh, yeah, I mean, it was one dating. Dating for me has always been one of those felt like it was the, the wall I could never get over. And, And so it's really been, yeah, awesome to feel like I've made a big leap forward in being able to get a girlfriend. And yeah, it's one of the most just enjoyable things that I've done. So I've been...
Go ahead. Um, I mean, it, it's, it's, uh, yeah, I mean, it was one dating. Dating for me has always been one of those felt like it was the, the wall I could never get over. And, And so it's really been, yeah, awesome to feel like I've made a big leap forward in being able to get a girlfriend. And yeah, it's one of the most just enjoyable things that I've done. So I've been...
Go ahead. Um, I mean, it, it's, it's, uh, yeah, I mean, it was one dating. Dating for me has always been one of those felt like it was the, the wall I could never get over. And, And so it's really been, yeah, awesome to feel like I've made a big leap forward in being able to get a girlfriend. And yeah, it's one of the most just enjoyable things that I've done. So I've been...
really, really thankful for being able to, to do this this year and work with you. And I think like just, uh, the, the ability to have somebody to like focus on it with me, like I tried multiple years to, to do this, but being able to have somebody that I think you, you understood how, uh, how my, like you understood my problems.
really, really thankful for being able to, to do this this year and work with you. And I think like just, uh, the, the ability to have somebody to like focus on it with me, like I tried multiple years to, to do this, but being able to have somebody that I think you, you understood how, uh, how my, like you understood my problems.
really, really thankful for being able to, to do this this year and work with you. And I think like just, uh, the, the ability to have somebody to like focus on it with me, like I tried multiple years to, to do this, but being able to have somebody that I think you, you understood how, uh, how my, like you understood my problems.
Like there's, there's certain different types of problems that I think people have. And you understood my problems were able to kind of coach me through how to, how to get through that. So, um, it's, it's been a huge, huge confidence boost, a lot of fun.
Like there's, there's certain different types of problems that I think people have. And you understood my problems were able to kind of coach me through how to, how to get through that. So, um, it's, it's been a huge, huge confidence boost, a lot of fun.
Like there's, there's certain different types of problems that I think people have. And you understood my problems were able to kind of coach me through how to, how to get through that. So, um, it's, it's been a huge, huge confidence boost, a lot of fun.
Yeah, I mean I think the tip that I would have liked to hear is just that being – like be open to the idea that what you want in a girl and what you want in a relationship is possible. That it's not like you're unworthy of it. It's not like you're incapable of attracting a girl. But it does take some mindset work.
Yeah, I mean I think the tip that I would have liked to hear is just that being – like be open to the idea that what you want in a girl and what you want in a relationship is possible. That it's not like you're unworthy of it. It's not like you're incapable of attracting a girl. But it does take some mindset work.
Yeah, I mean I think the tip that I would have liked to hear is just that being – like be open to the idea that what you want in a girl and what you want in a relationship is possible. That it's not like you're unworthy of it. It's not like you're incapable of attracting a girl. But it does take some mindset work.
It takes some mechanics, being a little clunky, having those awkward moments that you just got to like laugh at. But it is definitely possible for you. And I think being able to just go through that process. I mean, I would say it took... took a good six, seven months of a lot of focused effort.
It takes some mechanics, being a little clunky, having those awkward moments that you just got to like laugh at. But it is definitely possible for you. And I think being able to just go through that process. I mean, I would say it took... took a good six, seven months of a lot of focused effort.
It takes some mechanics, being a little clunky, having those awkward moments that you just got to like laugh at. But it is definitely possible for you. And I think being able to just go through that process. I mean, I would say it took... took a good six, seven months of a lot of focused effort.
Um, a couple, a couple little relationships and failed, failed, um, dates, but got to that point where I understood who I was, what I wanted and, uh, came out better on the other end. Uh, so happy. I went through the, through that experience and it, it was, you know, it was a work. It was, it was kind of difficult at times, but it was, uh, it was extremely worth it.
Um, a couple, a couple little relationships and failed, failed, um, dates, but got to that point where I understood who I was, what I wanted and, uh, came out better on the other end. Uh, so happy. I went through the, through that experience and it, it was, you know, it was a work. It was, it was kind of difficult at times, but it was, uh, it was extremely worth it.
Um, a couple, a couple little relationships and failed, failed, um, dates, but got to that point where I understood who I was, what I wanted and, uh, came out better on the other end. Uh, so happy. I went through the, through that experience and it, it was, you know, it was a work. It was, it was kind of difficult at times, but it was, uh, it was extremely worth it.
So I remember a lot of times I would get, I think one of the things that kept me held back from having dating, dating success before was just cause I would get maybe a little demotivated or, um, you know, lack of confidence that I could do it and get distracted on other things.