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Jake

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How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Yeah, a lot of times I'm like, I sometimes try to think about like, it's hard to imagine you know, going 10 years without a, without a, without a girlfriend. So it's, it's, uh, it's awesome. It's fun.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Go ahead. Um, I mean, it, it's, it's, uh, yeah, I mean, it was one dating. Dating for me has always been one of those felt like it was the, the wall I could never get over. And, And so it's really been, yeah, awesome to feel like I've made a big leap forward in being able to get a girlfriend. And yeah, it's one of the most just enjoyable things that I've done. So I've been...

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Go ahead. Um, I mean, it, it's, it's, uh, yeah, I mean, it was one dating. Dating for me has always been one of those felt like it was the, the wall I could never get over. And, And so it's really been, yeah, awesome to feel like I've made a big leap forward in being able to get a girlfriend. And yeah, it's one of the most just enjoyable things that I've done. So I've been...

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Go ahead. Um, I mean, it, it's, it's, uh, yeah, I mean, it was one dating. Dating for me has always been one of those felt like it was the, the wall I could never get over. And, And so it's really been, yeah, awesome to feel like I've made a big leap forward in being able to get a girlfriend. And yeah, it's one of the most just enjoyable things that I've done. So I've been...

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

really, really thankful for being able to, to do this this year and work with you. And I think like just, uh, the, the ability to have somebody to like focus on it with me, like I tried multiple years to, to do this, but being able to have somebody that I think you, you understood how, uh, how my, like you understood my problems.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

really, really thankful for being able to, to do this this year and work with you. And I think like just, uh, the, the ability to have somebody to like focus on it with me, like I tried multiple years to, to do this, but being able to have somebody that I think you, you understood how, uh, how my, like you understood my problems.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

really, really thankful for being able to, to do this this year and work with you. And I think like just, uh, the, the ability to have somebody to like focus on it with me, like I tried multiple years to, to do this, but being able to have somebody that I think you, you understood how, uh, how my, like you understood my problems.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Like there's, there's certain different types of problems that I think people have. And you understood my problems were able to kind of coach me through how to, how to get through that. So, um, it's, it's been a huge, huge confidence boost, a lot of fun.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Like there's, there's certain different types of problems that I think people have. And you understood my problems were able to kind of coach me through how to, how to get through that. So, um, it's, it's been a huge, huge confidence boost, a lot of fun.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Like there's, there's certain different types of problems that I think people have. And you understood my problems were able to kind of coach me through how to, how to get through that. So, um, it's, it's been a huge, huge confidence boost, a lot of fun.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Yeah, I mean I think the tip that I would have liked to hear is just that being – like be open to the idea that what you want in a girl and what you want in a relationship is possible. That it's not like you're unworthy of it. It's not like you're incapable of attracting a girl. But it does take some mindset work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Yeah, I mean I think the tip that I would have liked to hear is just that being – like be open to the idea that what you want in a girl and what you want in a relationship is possible. That it's not like you're unworthy of it. It's not like you're incapable of attracting a girl. But it does take some mindset work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Yeah, I mean I think the tip that I would have liked to hear is just that being – like be open to the idea that what you want in a girl and what you want in a relationship is possible. That it's not like you're unworthy of it. It's not like you're incapable of attracting a girl. But it does take some mindset work.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

It takes some mechanics, being a little clunky, having those awkward moments that you just got to like laugh at. But it is definitely possible for you. And I think being able to just go through that process. I mean, I would say it took... took a good six, seven months of a lot of focused effort.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

It takes some mechanics, being a little clunky, having those awkward moments that you just got to like laugh at. But it is definitely possible for you. And I think being able to just go through that process. I mean, I would say it took... took a good six, seven months of a lot of focused effort.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

It takes some mechanics, being a little clunky, having those awkward moments that you just got to like laugh at. But it is definitely possible for you. And I think being able to just go through that process. I mean, I would say it took... took a good six, seven months of a lot of focused effort.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Um, a couple, a couple little relationships and failed, failed, um, dates, but got to that point where I understood who I was, what I wanted and, uh, came out better on the other end. Uh, so happy. I went through the, through that experience and it, it was, you know, it was a work. It was, it was kind of difficult at times, but it was, uh, it was extremely worth it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Um, a couple, a couple little relationships and failed, failed, um, dates, but got to that point where I understood who I was, what I wanted and, uh, came out better on the other end. Uh, so happy. I went through the, through that experience and it, it was, you know, it was a work. It was, it was kind of difficult at times, but it was, uh, it was extremely worth it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

Um, a couple, a couple little relationships and failed, failed, um, dates, but got to that point where I understood who I was, what I wanted and, uh, came out better on the other end. Uh, so happy. I went through the, through that experience and it, it was, you know, it was a work. It was, it was kind of difficult at times, but it was, uh, it was extremely worth it.

How to Get a Girlfriend with Connell Barrett
From 10 Years of Loneliness to Landing His Dream Girl Allie: How Jake Found Love—and How You Can, Too!

So I remember a lot of times I would get, I think one of the things that kept me held back from having dating, dating success before was just cause I would get maybe a little demotivated or, um, you know, lack of confidence that I could do it and get distracted on other things.