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James Kimmel, Jr.

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Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

And the last component is you have a prefrontal cortex in your brain, which is your executive function and control circuitry. And that's there to stop you from doing things that hurt yourself or other people.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

And the last component is you have a prefrontal cortex in your brain, which is your executive function and control circuitry. And that's there to stop you from doing things that hurt yourself or other people.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

In addiction, that circuitry is generally seen and believed to have been inhibited or hijacked so that you no longer have the clarity of decision making that you might have in a more calmer state.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

In addiction, that circuitry is generally seen and believed to have been inhibited or hijacked so that you no longer have the clarity of decision making that you might have in a more calmer state.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

In addiction, that circuitry is generally seen and believed to have been inhibited or hijacked so that you no longer have the clarity of decision making that you might have in a more calmer state.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

So the addiction is if you go after that driver, you swerve in front of them, you put yourself in harm's way, that driver in harm's way, and the other drivers around you in harm's way. and you couldn't control it. It wasn't a rational thought, it was compulsive. Compulsive revenge seeking is the addiction, and we see that throughout society. We see it in intimate partner relationships,

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

So the addiction is if you go after that driver, you swerve in front of them, you put yourself in harm's way, that driver in harm's way, and the other drivers around you in harm's way. and you couldn't control it. It wasn't a rational thought, it was compulsive. Compulsive revenge seeking is the addiction, and we see that throughout society. We see it in intimate partner relationships,

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

So the addiction is if you go after that driver, you swerve in front of them, you put yourself in harm's way, that driver in harm's way, and the other drivers around you in harm's way. and you couldn't control it. It wasn't a rational thought, it was compulsive. Compulsive revenge seeking is the addiction, and we see that throughout society. We see it in intimate partner relationships,

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

husband, wife, or otherwise, spouses, in which there's a continuation of seeking to retaliate over and over again, despite the serious damage it's doing to their relationship, to their family, to their kids.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

husband, wife, or otherwise, spouses, in which there's a continuation of seeking to retaliate over and over again, despite the serious damage it's doing to their relationship, to their family, to their kids.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

husband, wife, or otherwise, spouses, in which there's a continuation of seeking to retaliate over and over again, despite the serious damage it's doing to their relationship, to their family, to their kids.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

Well, the first person who said, wow, that guy was a jerk, and then goes back to listening to their radio and driving normally, that person's in full control. He may or she may have fantasized a little bit for a while about all the deliciously cool things they'd like to do to that jerk, but they don't act on it. And they're safe and acting in the normally adaptive way.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

Well, the first person who said, wow, that guy was a jerk, and then goes back to listening to their radio and driving normally, that person's in full control. He may or she may have fantasized a little bit for a while about all the deliciously cool things they'd like to do to that jerk, but they don't act on it. And they're safe and acting in the normally adaptive way.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

Well, the first person who said, wow, that guy was a jerk, and then goes back to listening to their radio and driving normally, that person's in full control. He may or she may have fantasized a little bit for a while about all the deliciously cool things they'd like to do to that jerk, but they don't act on it. And they're safe and acting in the normally adaptive way.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

But for many other people, maybe 20% of the population, they're going to escalate that, put themselves in harm's way, put other people in harm's way. And those people are struggling with a revenge addiction, which is, it feels good to retaliate, And just like any other addict who's an addict, you know, of alcohol, other narcotics, they're seeking that pleasure.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

But for many other people, maybe 20% of the population, they're going to escalate that, put themselves in harm's way, put other people in harm's way. And those people are struggling with a revenge addiction, which is, it feels good to retaliate, And just like any other addict who's an addict, you know, of alcohol, other narcotics, they're seeking that pleasure.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

But for many other people, maybe 20% of the population, they're going to escalate that, put themselves in harm's way, put other people in harm's way. And those people are struggling with a revenge addiction, which is, it feels good to retaliate, And just like any other addict who's an addict, you know, of alcohol, other narcotics, they're seeking that pleasure.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

Yeah, and I'm glad you brought that up. So the pleasure that you get is very short-lived, just the way it is for drugs and alcohol. It might be minutes to an hour, but as you say, and studies have shown and backed up exactly what you just said, There are negative psychological consequences for Avengers, and they're always there. We always experience them.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

Yeah, and I'm glad you brought that up. So the pleasure that you get is very short-lived, just the way it is for drugs and alcohol. It might be minutes to an hour, but as you say, and studies have shown and backed up exactly what you just said, There are negative psychological consequences for Avengers, and they're always there. We always experience them.

Something You Should Know
Why Revenge Is Seldom Worth It & What You Need to Know About Snakes

Yeah, and I'm glad you brought that up. So the pleasure that you get is very short-lived, just the way it is for drugs and alcohol. It might be minutes to an hour, but as you say, and studies have shown and backed up exactly what you just said, There are negative psychological consequences for Avengers, and they're always there. We always experience them.