James Sexton

So it's the same thing.

It's a non-additive system.

So I think we've created conditions that are highly antagonistic to finding deep, meaningful connection if you let them be.

And the most dangerous part is it's creating in us a definitional expectation of like, what should real love look like?

What should I be looking for?

What should I settle for?

What should I accept in my partner?

What's important in my partner?

What's the right way to relate to my partner in the wrong way?

We are listening to everyone but ourselves, everyone but our heart and our gut.

And by the way,

These people that are selling you how you should live your life, like the algorithm doesn't love you.

They want your money.

They don't care about you, they want your money.

Like that's it, that's it.

These people, they're building what they're building, not because they love you and they want you to be happy.

They're building, they want your money.

And if you allow that, like it's okay.

David Foster Wallace said, you know, like social media is like junk food.

Like it's okay once in a while.