James Sexton
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Well, if there was someone in your life who talked to Lisa the way you talk to yourself in your brain, you'd beat the shit out of that guy.
I know that's true of me.
We're not best friends, you and I, but we're friends.
If someone talked to you the way I talk to myself in my head, I would be like, dude, you're out of order.
Like, you don't know Tom.
You don't know everything he's been through.
You don't have a right to judge.
Because I am brutal to myself.
Like I get up in the morning, I'm like, what are you doing, dude?
Get out of bed.
What do you get it going?
And like, get to the gym.
Like you're weak, you're getting old.
What do you do?
Come on.
Like all I do is beat myself up.
And so, you know, again, like I think that's all the framing.
That's all the like, we've been taught to criticize ourselves constantly.
We've been taught to take our eye off the plot.
Like you and Lisa, the thing you're doing well is you don't lose the plot.