James Sexton

Do you know, honestly, like you know how many grilled chicken breasts I've eaten?

And broccoli?

It's insane how much I've worked on my obliques.

And it turns out like this, like I could do that just right before I get home.

Like I could just be out all day having fun and I could just have to do that.

Like, but it turns out it would never have occurred to me that that's a thing.

But again,

You know how fun that conversation is?

What a pleasure that conversation is.

What a privilege to get to hear that.

What a lovely thing to feel so seen and so loved and to know that there's something about me that I didn't even know this person finds attractive and likes and that deepens our connection.

And just having that conversation is fun.

And by the way, I'm not afraid either to like do the shadow side of that.

Like what's some things I did this week that made you not want to have sex with me?

Like, was there a moment?

And again, make it a praise sandwich so it's fun.

Like, what did I do right?

What did I get wrong?

What did I do?

What could I do better?