James Sexton

So men now are very confused.

All of their impulse is to be ambitious, to be strong, to go after that.

They're not celebrated.

They're not rewarded.

Women can control fertility.

So you can have sex without getting pregnant.

You can keep yourself safe.

You can monetize your own money.

In many ways, women have an easier time staying focused and staying on task.

And so the modern world rewards that.

And so all of a sudden the incentives that we were evolutionarily primed for, they're no longer present.

That has completely broken down.

And so there really is a sense of why exactly do I need to be in a relationship?

Guys could in a single day see more nude women.

Yeah.

than they would have seen in a lifetime 200 years ago.

So you've got all of these crazy ass distortions that go on with the thing that would normally incentivize a male to have sex, that would normally incentivize a woman, access to resources, safety, those things are blown apart.

And so now all of the compromises that you have to make in a relationship are like, why am I doing this exactly?

And then you put that together with social media, being able to compare, being able to swipe and just find the next person, just super easy.

And you're now playing in the global market instead of just, well, there's only six guys here.