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James Sexton

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
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Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

If people watch them back to back, they will see very quickly, I'm cueing on different things.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

And I love it.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

Like, I love it.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

Yeah.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

Now, my wife has masculine traits.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

I have feminine traits.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

So we're already closer to the center than most people.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

So when I think about people that are much farther apart trying to blank slate their way through life, I'm just like, whoa, buddy, you are going to be routinely confused because you have certain...

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

tendencies, leanings, however you want to think about it, that are pulling you through life.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

And if you expect the other person to be like you, you're going to be eternally confused.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

Lisa made no sense to me when I thought she viewed the world the same way that I did.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

And it was only when I was like, oh wait, she has a different brain structure.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

She perceives the world differently than I do.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

She has slightly different value set than I do.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

Hormonally is wildly different.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

So that was really transformative to wake up and say, she's not me, but illogical.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

She just actually is experiencing the world.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

Yeah, in a totally different way.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

So I need to figure out, okay, wait a second.

Tom Bilyeu's Impact Theory
Why Modern Marriage Fails and What Couples Can Do About It

What are you going through right now?