James Sexton
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
about it.
But again, like the entry point is from a place of connection.
It's from a place of intrigue.
It's from a place of storytelling.
Like I'm hooking you, that's the cheese in that trap, right?
But like, again, all for the benefit of this relationship, like all for the benefit, because there's no downside to that.
Like to share with your partner what you want and what your desire and what you're feeling.
Like in a perfect world, you're absolutely right.
You'd just be able to say like, you know, babe, I've been having this thought lately.
And by the way, if you did what I said earlier,
where you built into your relationship these periodic check-ins.
You know, and again, like I don't like the idea, because I think there is like a measure what matters thing and people can reduce things to metrics and statistics a little too much.
Like I've seen people like quantify, like I represent a lot of quant people and it's almost like they're on the spectrum and they feel like they have to, everything has to be measured and everything.
Like Brian Johnson, God bless you, buddy, but that life looks miserable to me.
Like I honestly, like I'm not eating that much kale and I'm not, like he eats so many pills, he's full.
Like you can keep it, man.
Like it's okay.
Like I'll die sooner.
I'm good.
Like I'll die sooner.