Jan Arden

You have to have someone that wants to be with you as much as you want to be with them.

Full stop.

Absolutely.

Oh, my God.

I have so many.

I can't say enough good things about how she supports me and how she really makes me think hard about the other side of things.

You know, she'll always, if I'm having any difficult time, she'll say, okay, let's pretend that this person is completely right, that what you've done is not what you should have been doing, and you let them down.

Like, I'm just hypothesizing.

But she gives me this look, this glimpse into myself that I'm just like, oh.

Like I don't have someone going, yeah, you're right completely.

That should never happen.

We need people who make us like reflect.

It's great.

I look so far into myself and I have to step into a way of thinking that's not being encouraged by people that want to agree with you all the time.

And he doesn't admonish you.

No.

I'm sure he doesn't say, are you working again?

I thought we were going to have Sunday.

I'm telling you, I would rather be fucking alone with a bear in the woods.

I would rather just literally have a cool soda in my hand looking at the river and not...