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Jan Jachimowicz

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
370 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

that's fine and that's part of the journey.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

I think what we do next is then what determines the rest of that journey.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

What we do with that pain.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

We can say, I'm going to do what I can to modify that pain, to treat that pain, but not the underlying symptom.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

And I'm going to spread myself very thin.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

I'm going to do a lot of different things.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

They might not necessarily be meaningful, but they provide me with enough positive feedback that I can keep going.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

And that's one approach but probably not an approach that will allow you to have long-term positive outcomes and will make you feel like your life is particularly meaningful.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

I think the more challenging set of questions is well then who are you to begin with?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Like why did you care so deeply about this one thing

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

And how else could you pursue that?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

How else could you use that as a jumping point to continue expanding?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

So I think it speaks to, on the one hand, the possibility perhaps there is more we can do to prepare ourselves for what comes next if we notice that the flame of our passion is dying.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

But I would even say if the flame of our passion is dying in this one thing, is there something I can do to rekindle it?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Just because a passion is dying, I wouldn't necessarily use the inference that means that it's gone forever.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Perhaps there's something I can do to reinvigorate that.

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Perhaps I can go back and understand why did I care about this to begin with?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

What has changed in the last few years?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

When I think back to a time period when I was really fired up, what were the circumstances then?

Hidden Brain
Love 2.0: How to Fix Your Marriage, Part 1

Who was I working with?