Jane

Sure.

shit happens and i gotta deal with it sometimes but i don't know if that's the case with your husband you know i knew they were and they've already been close friends since then and so um and it's already been a topic of discussion and so yeah me seeing that he was calling her so often i was like i i i thought he was cheating on me and i

you know, I called him out that night and it was very like, he was like, Oh shit.

Like, like in a way of like, I didn't know I was doing something wrong.

She's going through a hard time.

Yeah.

And he literally was like, it's like our own podcast.

I call her and I say, what's going on today?

Like, that's how he.

You know, that was like a big, that's probably the biggest thing that was like, you know, he did, you know, he's like, I'm like, this is what I need.

Like, you can't do that.

You know, like this, that's a boundary.

Like, that's crazy.

And a lot of the times when we have these things, he, we just like push it under the rug.

I'm guilty of it as well.

But like, it's like, we fight about it.

It's like awkward for a few days.

Because he, yeah, like, he can't see my perspective of, because he's so strong-willed, like, I'm not doing anything wrong.

I'm not cheating on you, basically.

His thing of being wrong is that he has cheated on me physically with her.