Jane

Like, I think we're really on the same page.

And then it'll come out that it's like, oh, well, I actually thought about that thing really differently than you did.

And it's nothing like majorly catastrophic by any means.

But then I realize, yeah, then I realize, oh, I haven't communicated that as clearly as I thought I did.

And then it sort of makes me wonder what else I did.

Because I do have, I do have a really hard time just being like, these are my needs and I need you to fulfill them in this way.

Yes.

It's like terrifying for me.

It does.

Yeah.

I think I've noticed that like in other times in life, like he doesn't have any issues being like, well, this is what I think about that.

And this is why I think it's not correct.

And it's not coming from a place of like, you're wrong.

It's just the way that he communicates it.

It's like,

there's no like kind of filter around that.

And then I end up taking it personally because I'm, I'm just, yeah.

So I'm just like imagining that could happen.

It will happen.

Other than that.