Janet Ettele

would like to be achieving yourself if you were interested in learning carpentry you'd want to look at the quality of work that carpenter you were studying from was producing so i think in the same way it's like the quality of how someone is living is perhaps a little less tangible to and concrete to see but you've got to take some time spend time with that person and

Just be careful of what makes sense to you. The Buddha said, see my fingers pointing to the moon. Don't mistake my finger for being the moon. It's because of my finger that you can see the moon. And so we want to make sure whoever we're taking on, whether it's a coach or a mentor or a teacher, that they see that and live it.

Just be careful of what makes sense to you. The Buddha said, see my fingers pointing to the moon. Don't mistake my finger for being the moon. It's because of my finger that you can see the moon. And so we want to make sure whoever we're taking on, whether it's a coach or a mentor or a teacher, that they see that and live it.

Just be careful of what makes sense to you. The Buddha said, see my fingers pointing to the moon. Don't mistake my finger for being the moon. It's because of my finger that you can see the moon. And so we want to make sure whoever we're taking on, whether it's a coach or a mentor or a teacher, that they see that and live it.

and can help guide you towards that in a really ethical way and in a kind way.

and can help guide you towards that in a really ethical way and in a kind way.

and can help guide you towards that in a really ethical way and in a kind way.

And what you said is someone who was two or three steps ahead of you. I forget the word you use, but who's already done it, who's achieved what it is you're

And what you said is someone who was two or three steps ahead of you. I forget the word you use, but who's already done it, who's achieved what it is you're

And what you said is someone who was two or three steps ahead of you. I forget the word you use, but who's already done it, who's achieved what it is you're

I think that happens in life organically, like in your situation. And you had that sort of awareness that this is something that you were inspired by what you saw in this mentor. And so like a magnet, you went toward that. That's, again, a choice that you made. I think people have to be It's a way of being proactive, right? You're not passively just sitting in the shadows.

I think that happens in life organically, like in your situation. And you had that sort of awareness that this is something that you were inspired by what you saw in this mentor. And so like a magnet, you went toward that. That's, again, a choice that you made. I think people have to be It's a way of being proactive, right? You're not passively just sitting in the shadows.

I think that happens in life organically, like in your situation. And you had that sort of awareness that this is something that you were inspired by what you saw in this mentor. And so like a magnet, you went toward that. That's, again, a choice that you made. I think people have to be It's a way of being proactive, right? You're not passively just sitting in the shadows.

You put yourself in that environment to learn more closely.

You put yourself in that environment to learn more closely.

You put yourself in that environment to learn more closely.

And goes right back to what you were saying we were talking about earlier, that disease of disconnection. Just this is a man who just that's how he lived. And there was that connection. And he created the connection for those that he shared that we sat at the table with and had these conversations. Just a way of being present.

And goes right back to what you were saying we were talking about earlier, that disease of disconnection. Just this is a man who just that's how he lived. And there was that connection. And he created the connection for those that he shared that we sat at the table with and had these conversations. Just a way of being present.

And goes right back to what you were saying we were talking about earlier, that disease of disconnection. Just this is a man who just that's how he lived. And there was that connection. And he created the connection for those that he shared that we sat at the table with and had these conversations. Just a way of being present.

Well, those are two different questions. Are they feeling stuck or are they feeling they're missing the connection or are they feeling both?