Janet

Well, I guess I just in my head, I'm like, will it be awkward now? Because like she said, she was worried telling me that would wreck our friendship. And so in my head, I'm like, I don't know that we can remain friends or like that it can go back to normal because now it's like, I know this thing. even though there is no issue on my end.

Right, and then I feel like a jerk if it's like, oh, this fear that you just shared with me that this would end our friendship. Now I'm going to do that thing.

Right, and then I feel like a jerk if it's like, oh, this fear that you just shared with me that this would end our friendship. Now I'm going to do that thing.

Right, and then I feel like a jerk if it's like, oh, this fear that you just shared with me that this would end our friendship. Now I'm going to do that thing.

Right, and that's what I don't know is like what was her expectation in telling you that. I would assume you tell somebody that because you would hope they would reciprocate.

Right, and that's what I don't know is like what was her expectation in telling you that. I would assume you tell somebody that because you would hope they would reciprocate.

Right, and that's what I don't know is like what was her expectation in telling you that. I would assume you tell somebody that because you would hope they would reciprocate.

I mean, I feel like the right thing would be to end it. I guess I just struggle a lot with being a people pleaser and not wanting to hurt people.

I mean, I feel like the right thing would be to end it. I guess I just struggle a lot with being a people pleaser and not wanting to hurt people.

I mean, I feel like the right thing would be to end it. I guess I just struggle a lot with being a people pleaser and not wanting to hurt people.

Obviously to say like, I don't feel that way. This is inappropriate. You know, I'm married. This can't continue. And just to cut off communication. And there we go.

Obviously to say like, I don't feel that way. This is inappropriate. You know, I'm married. This can't continue. And just to cut off communication. And there we go.

Obviously to say like, I don't feel that way. This is inappropriate. You know, I'm married. This can't continue. And just to cut off communication. And there we go.

At least as it was.

At least as it was.

At least as it was.

Right. I feel like it's also a little bit complicated because her husband is friends with my husband. We all know each other from church. So it's not just I'm ending the friendship with her. It's like it's all over. Um, and so like I told my husband what happened right away. I was like, Oh, Hey, I got this text. This is really odd. Like I was taken aback by it.

Right. I feel like it's also a little bit complicated because her husband is friends with my husband. We all know each other from church. So it's not just I'm ending the friendship with her. It's like it's all over. Um, and so like I told my husband what happened right away. I was like, Oh, Hey, I got this text. This is really odd. Like I was taken aback by it.

Right. I feel like it's also a little bit complicated because her husband is friends with my husband. We all know each other from church. So it's not just I'm ending the friendship with her. It's like it's all over. Um, and so like I told my husband what happened right away. I was like, Oh, Hey, I got this text. This is really odd. Like I was taken aback by it.

And he, you know, I told him we were going to go meet up and talk. Um, but she has not told her husband and I don't know if that's my place. Um, I don't think so. I don't think so. Yeah. Cause I'm like, you know, what if she has a change of heart or she's like, I'm such an idiot. Like I don't want to be responsible for blowing up their marriage.