Jared Freed

But on the other side of that,

you could have people that are just happy to get attention at a minimum.

Right.

You know, for him, talking to a woman might be the biggest win in the world, and if he loses it, who cares?

I talked to a woman.

I got the validation I wanted.

Getting a match might be all that someone's on the app for.

Because it's easier to lie and get more matches to get your fix.

Right.

He gets less messages if he doesn't write anything at all.

And also, he might believe that he wants a relationship.

He might be telling himself every day, I want a relationship, but he also... He might want a relationship and also want to fuck, also want to get attention, also want to...

have something to do while he's taking a dump.

All of these things are wins for him.

For her, the only win from an app, which is a lot of hers out there, I'm generalizing, but there's a lot of women out there who will say the only win from an app is marriage and a relationship.

And if that's how you feel, you're going to be very disappointed.

And if you think that's what other people on the other side want,

You're going to be even more disappointed.

Right.

I mean, she kind of did say that.