Jared Freid

like it because I care about the people listening and I'm never going to be dishonest with them and I'm also going to sound icky because I'm giving them the truth I don't have to make eye contact with the person I'm telling what's going on that's the beauty of a podcast I can speak so much more honest than the person you're dating and my perspective is I'm always going to speak personally and

My belief is that we're all 10% away from each other. If I feel something, the person you're dealing with isn't 100% feeling a different thing. They might be 10% different to one side or the other, but I'm pretty close. So I had a situation where I was on a date and the person showed me a picture of someone they thought I looked like. And I thought that was a very interesting predicament.

My belief is that we're all 10% away from each other. If I feel something, the person you're dealing with isn't 100% feeling a different thing. They might be 10% different to one side or the other, but I'm pretty close. So I had a situation where I was on a date and the person showed me a picture of someone they thought I looked like. And I thought that was a very interesting predicament.

I don't want to be shown who I look like. I don't think most people want to be shown, especially on a date, so they're like, oh my God, you have the same... They said you have the same vibe, you have the same this, you have the same... Was it like a friend or a cousin or something? It was like a friend's husband, and then they brought up the picture, and I was like...

I don't want to be shown who I look like. I don't think most people want to be shown, especially on a date, so they're like, oh my God, you have the same... They said you have the same vibe, you have the same this, you have the same... Was it like a friend or a cousin or something? It was like a friend's husband, and then they brought up the picture, and I was like...

Again, I just don't think... This person could be offended that someone thought I looked like them. Again, it can go all ways. It's hard to say that you were like... Again, I just don't want to be shown who I look like on a date. It kind of takes away the special nature of us getting together. I'm kind of like... I brought that to the podcast.

Again, I just don't think... This person could be offended that someone thought I looked like them. Again, it can go all ways. It's hard to say that you were like... Again, I just don't want to be shown who I look like on a date. It kind of takes away the special nature of us getting together. I'm kind of like... I brought that to the podcast.

I think that's like an interesting... Like, what would you do? You know, so... If someone was afraid of dating me, I would totally understand that. Like, I'm not for everyone... Just like anyone is not for anyone. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's a scenario you would have to deal with because... Listen, we all have opinions and we all make judgements, and everyone's judging. No one cares, everyone judges.

I think that's like an interesting... Like, what would you do? You know, so... If someone was afraid of dating me, I would totally understand that. Like, I'm not for everyone... Just like anyone is not for anyone. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That's a scenario you would have to deal with because... Listen, we all have opinions and we all make judgements, and everyone's judging. No one cares, everyone judges.

So no one's holding onto it the rest of their life, but they go, oh, I got shown what I look like, I don't think I'm gonna go on day two.

So no one's holding onto it the rest of their life, but they go, oh, I got shown what I look like, I don't think I'm gonna go on day two.

Has someone ever contacted you after, even if you did keep it classy and very general? This person. So after you talked about it on the pod, then she talked?

Has someone ever contacted you after, even if you did keep it classy and very general? This person. So after you talked about it on the pod, then she talked?

So then I see them a month later, and they're like, so-and-so isn't ugly. And I'm like, what?

So then I see them a month later, and they're like, so-and-so isn't ugly. And I'm like, what?

I saw them in person. And they're like, if I showed you Brad Pitt, you wouldn't care. I go, well, you didn't. I was like, that's not how it went. And I would go, I don't look like him. It's a waste of time. Again, that's why dating podcasts are fun. I enjoy unpacking those things. I'm going to give how I feel on it. It's okay for someone to disagree. Yeah.

I saw them in person. And they're like, if I showed you Brad Pitt, you wouldn't care. I go, well, you didn't. I was like, that's not how it went. And I would go, I don't look like him. It's a waste of time. Again, that's why dating podcasts are fun. I enjoy unpacking those things. I'm going to give how I feel on it. It's okay for someone to disagree. Yeah.

So, yeah, people – I've gotten messages from people, and I've been at bars. I had another instance where someone was like, you talked about me. And I – again, here's the thing. Men who talk about their dating life – there's not a lot of straight men who talk about their dating life.

So, yeah, people – I've gotten messages from people, and I've been at bars. I had another instance where someone was like, you talked about me. And I – again, here's the thing. Men who talk about their dating life – there's not a lot of straight men who talk about their dating life.

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