Jared Freid

On social media.

It's not a big win for us.

It's not a big win for us.

So you have to be nuanced or else you sound like incel Joe Rogan asshole.

So you have to be nuanced or else you sound like incel Joe Rogan asshole.

And I don't – so that's why I think my podcast, You Up, if people find it, they love it. But it's hard to find people for us. I think we have the best dating podcast that exists. I don't think there's a place where you're going to get a more honest conversation. I don't think there's a place where you're going to have fun with dating in the way we have fun with it and laugh.

And I don't – so that's why I think my podcast, You Up, if people find it, they love it. But it's hard to find people for us. I think we have the best dating podcast that exists. I don't think there's a place where you're going to get a more honest conversation. I don't think there's a place where you're going to have fun with dating in the way we have fun with it and laugh.

And we have a mostly female audience.

And we have a mostly female audience.

I was going to ask. Isn't it mostly from what I've heard? It's always girls being like, oh my god, I love it. I'm going to a show and I love his advice and things like that. It's honest and it's real, but it's not like... I don't know, again, the POV, it's not that it's not tough love. It's not tough love. You keep it honest. But I feel like it's just this perspective.

I was going to ask. Isn't it mostly from what I've heard? It's always girls being like, oh my god, I love it. I'm going to a show and I love his advice and things like that. It's honest and it's real, but it's not like... I don't know, again, the POV, it's not that it's not tough love. It's not tough love. You keep it honest. But I feel like it's just this perspective.

It's just coming from a voice that is a non-toxic male, which is rare nowadays.

It's just coming from a voice that is a non-toxic male, which is rare nowadays.

It's rare because you're rewarded for toxicity on social media.

It's rare because you're rewarded for toxicity on social media.

Yeah.

Yeah.

And listen, I'm not going to say I'm a hero. That's the other thing. I never go on this podcast and say, I've done exactly what every guy has written about. I've done everything that's written out into the show. When someone's like, this guy goes to what happened. I can give a perspective because I've done it. I'm not proud of that. But also, that's the thing. My job is to be...

And listen, I'm not going to say I'm a hero. That's the other thing. I never go on this podcast and say, I've done exactly what every guy has written about. I've done everything that's written out into the show. When someone's like, this guy goes to what happened. I can give a perspective because I've done it. I'm not proud of that. But also, that's the thing. My job is to be...

But you wouldn't be able to give advice if you didn't have that experience yourself. Then you would just be like, well, according to my ethics guide, you know, I would be doing X, Y. It's like, no, you speak from experience and the lessons you learned and that's the whole purpose. And you're vulnerable.