Jasmine Star
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You know, I often discuss that the thing, the sneaky thing that stops most entrepreneurs from getting their business in front of others is comparison. And once we start understanding comparison, so oftentimes whenever I give a presentation or whenever I do a coaching session or a consulting session, I am literally starting there.
Because if I tell you this is on the horizon, when it slaps you across the face, it's not so much a shock. So anybody who's listening right now, let me predict your future. The thing that will stop you from doing the thing that you know you have been called to do is not lack of money, resources, or education. It is simply the fact of comparison.
Because if I tell you this is on the horizon, when it slaps you across the face, it's not so much a shock. So anybody who's listening right now, let me predict your future. The thing that will stop you from doing the thing that you know you have been called to do is not lack of money, resources, or education. It is simply the fact of comparison.
Because if I tell you this is on the horizon, when it slaps you across the face, it's not so much a shock. So anybody who's listening right now, let me predict your future. The thing that will stop you from doing the thing that you know you have been called to do is not lack of money, resources, or education. It is simply the fact of comparison.
But let's break down comparison because the way I see it is it takes on three manifestations. It takes on a mental manifestation. I am not. I am not that person. I am not Ryan. Therefore, I can't get that success. I am too old, too young, too fat, too skinny, too black, too white, too old, too young. will say I'm to this, therefore I can't do that. So that's an easy way out.
But let's break down comparison because the way I see it is it takes on three manifestations. It takes on a mental manifestation. I am not. I am not that person. I am not Ryan. Therefore, I can't get that success. I am too old, too young, too fat, too skinny, too black, too white, too old, too young. will say I'm to this, therefore I can't do that. So that's an easy way out.
But let's break down comparison because the way I see it is it takes on three manifestations. It takes on a mental manifestation. I am not. I am not that person. I am not Ryan. Therefore, I can't get that success. I am too old, too young, too fat, too skinny, too black, too white, too old, too young. will say I'm to this, therefore I can't do that. So that's an easy way out.
The second one is emotional. And this one's very, very hard to identify because most of the time people don't wake up and say, I'm not worthy. They don't say I'm not worthy, but it takes on an uglier form. It will say, I'm just not sure I'm capable of that big dream. I don't think that that's really gonna happen.
The second one is emotional. And this one's very, very hard to identify because most of the time people don't wake up and say, I'm not worthy. They don't say I'm not worthy, but it takes on an uglier form. It will say, I'm just not sure I'm capable of that big dream. I don't think that that's really gonna happen.
The second one is emotional. And this one's very, very hard to identify because most of the time people don't wake up and say, I'm not worthy. They don't say I'm not worthy, but it takes on an uglier form. It will say, I'm just not sure I'm capable of that big dream. I don't think that that's really gonna happen.
So we low key keep a subversive thought in our mind that's actually stopping us from doing that thing. And then the third one is going to be visual, right? I'm not on the Amalfi Coast this summer. I don't have a Ferrari. I'm not at that resort. I don't have that perfect house with those perfect kids in that perfect kitchen to do the perfect reel that I need.
So we low key keep a subversive thought in our mind that's actually stopping us from doing that thing. And then the third one is going to be visual, right? I'm not on the Amalfi Coast this summer. I don't have a Ferrari. I'm not at that resort. I don't have that perfect house with those perfect kids in that perfect kitchen to do the perfect reel that I need.
So we low key keep a subversive thought in our mind that's actually stopping us from doing that thing. And then the third one is going to be visual, right? I'm not on the Amalfi Coast this summer. I don't have a Ferrari. I'm not at that resort. I don't have that perfect house with those perfect kids in that perfect kitchen to do the perfect reel that I need.
And so we have these visual, intellectual, emotional moments things that stop us. But if we were to turn it on its side and simply say, you might be too old and you might be too white and you might be, but there is somebody out there who is just as white and just as old who needs to hear it your way. And in fact, even if you were to say that person does it their own way, guess what?
And so we have these visual, intellectual, emotional moments things that stop us. But if we were to turn it on its side and simply say, you might be too old and you might be too white and you might be, but there is somebody out there who is just as white and just as old who needs to hear it your way. And in fact, even if you were to say that person does it their own way, guess what?
And so we have these visual, intellectual, emotional moments things that stop us. But if we were to turn it on its side and simply say, you might be too old and you might be too white and you might be, but there is somebody out there who is just as white and just as old who needs to hear it your way. And in fact, even if you were to say that person does it their own way, guess what?
You might be saying the same message, but you're a different messenger. Beyond that, even if you are sharing the same message and you have a twin brother or a triplet, guess what? The mechanism. You might be a great podcast host, writer, speaker. You might be great on social.
You might be saying the same message, but you're a different messenger. Beyond that, even if you are sharing the same message and you have a twin brother or a triplet, guess what? The mechanism. You might be a great podcast host, writer, speaker. You might be great on social.
You might be saying the same message, but you're a different messenger. Beyond that, even if you are sharing the same message and you have a twin brother or a triplet, guess what? The mechanism. You might be a great podcast host, writer, speaker. You might be great on social.
We all do things different ways and we need to do it in our own way so that the person who needs what we do the way we do it can get it. And the other thing is I think that this dream might be too big and I am not sure. Listen, you wouldn't have got the dream if it wasn't in you to succeed. You didn't wake up this morning being like, you want to know what? I'm the next NBA star. You