Jason Feifer
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Yeah. I mean, anytime I think you enter the discussion of money and love, it becomes like, oh, like, where do I even begin? Right. But I think in any type of conversation regarding love, there's so many hard things you have to step into. And we know that like all at the end of the day, conflict is, is growth trying to happen.
Yeah. I mean, anytime I think you enter the discussion of money and love, it becomes like, oh, like, where do I even begin? Right. But I think in any type of conversation regarding love, there's so many hard things you have to step into. And we know that like all at the end of the day, conflict is, is growth trying to happen.
Yeah. I mean, anytime I think you enter the discussion of money and love, it becomes like, oh, like, where do I even begin? Right. But I think in any type of conversation regarding love, there's so many hard things you have to step into. And we know that like all at the end of the day, conflict is, is growth trying to happen.
And we know that there is so much conflict when it connects love and money in the statistics out there. are wildly alarming about what happens when we don't discuss money in our relationships.
And we know that there is so much conflict when it connects love and money in the statistics out there. are wildly alarming about what happens when we don't discuss money in our relationships.
And we know that there is so much conflict when it connects love and money in the statistics out there. are wildly alarming about what happens when we don't discuss money in our relationships.
And so knowing those statistics, like 50% of couples don't feel comfortable even having conversations around money, or those that do have conversations, three-quarters of them say that it creates material tension in the relationship. That gives us an indicator that we really need to step into it at some capacity.
And so knowing those statistics, like 50% of couples don't feel comfortable even having conversations around money, or those that do have conversations, three-quarters of them say that it creates material tension in the relationship. That gives us an indicator that we really need to step into it at some capacity.
And so knowing those statistics, like 50% of couples don't feel comfortable even having conversations around money, or those that do have conversations, three-quarters of them say that it creates material tension in the relationship. That gives us an indicator that we really need to step into it at some capacity.
And so what I always say is like, when we think about money, it's just like, we initially are like, what are you making? What's your net worth? What's your debt? And it's like, whoa, slow down. Yeah.
And so what I always say is like, when we think about money, it's just like, we initially are like, what are you making? What's your net worth? What's your debt? And it's like, whoa, slow down. Yeah.
And so what I always say is like, when we think about money, it's just like, we initially are like, what are you making? What's your net worth? What's your debt? And it's like, whoa, slow down. Yeah.
Yeah. And it's like, well, we can have fun. Like think about, you know, when you go out to drinks with your friends or a bite to eat, like the fun conversations you have about whatever it is, maybe it's gossip, maybe it's current news or what's happening. Like you could do that with money.
Yeah. And it's like, well, we can have fun. Like think about, you know, when you go out to drinks with your friends or a bite to eat, like the fun conversations you have about whatever it is, maybe it's gossip, maybe it's current news or what's happening. Like you could do that with money.
Yeah. And it's like, well, we can have fun. Like think about, you know, when you go out to drinks with your friends or a bite to eat, like the fun conversations you have about whatever it is, maybe it's gossip, maybe it's current news or what's happening. Like you could do that with money.
And the classic example I give someone is like, you know, if you earn or win a certain dollar amount, you get paid that amount today, like $50,000 or $500,000 or $100,000. You've got to spend every dollar. How exactly are you spending it? And just in that answer, I can learn how you prioritize money, what your relationship is with money, et cetera.
And the classic example I give someone is like, you know, if you earn or win a certain dollar amount, you get paid that amount today, like $50,000 or $500,000 or $100,000. You've got to spend every dollar. How exactly are you spending it? And just in that answer, I can learn how you prioritize money, what your relationship is with money, et cetera.
And the classic example I give someone is like, you know, if you earn or win a certain dollar amount, you get paid that amount today, like $50,000 or $500,000 or $100,000. You've got to spend every dollar. How exactly are you spending it? And just in that answer, I can learn how you prioritize money, what your relationship is with money, et cetera.
So I say introduce fun ways to these conversations because it's hard to step in to the ones that aren't so fun, but we know we have to.
So I say introduce fun ways to these conversations because it's hard to step in to the ones that aren't so fun, but we know we have to.