Jason Wilson

My wife did it. Again, the struggle comes in with men is the process. So the same way we have to unlearn what we've been deceived to believe a man is, We have to give our wives or the women in our lives that same grace to unlearn what they've been doing.

My wife did it. Again, the struggle comes in with men is the process. So the same way we have to unlearn what we've been deceived to believe a man is, We have to give our wives or the women in our lives that same grace to unlearn what they've been doing.

And a lot of times as men are breaking free from what I call emotional incarceration, if they face a woman or in a relationship where she just say impassively dismisses a moment where he is transparent with how he's feeling, now he wants to go back into the ways where he was hardened.

And a lot of times as men are breaking free from what I call emotional incarceration, if they face a woman or in a relationship where she just say impassively dismisses a moment where he is transparent with how he's feeling, now he wants to go back into the ways where he was hardened.

And I tell him, no, no, it's not time to retreat back to that cell, that mental jail cell where you know there is no peace.

And I tell him, no, no, it's not time to retreat back to that cell, that mental jail cell where you know there is no peace.

So don't be with that woman. Yeah, so a lot of men, we, see, we're changing for the wrong reasons. When I made the journey into comprehensive manhood, I had to change for myself. One moment, I'll never forget, my wife and I, we were in the car, we were arguing, and this was when I was learning how to become a verbal processor, how to express what I'm feeling without yelling or hitting things.

So don't be with that woman. Yeah, so a lot of men, we, see, we're changing for the wrong reasons. When I made the journey into comprehensive manhood, I had to change for myself. One moment, I'll never forget, my wife and I, we were in the car, we were arguing, and this was when I was learning how to become a verbal processor, how to express what I'm feeling without yelling or hitting things.

So you used to be what, a suppressor or angry? Passive aggressive.

So you used to be what, a suppressor or angry? Passive aggressive.

You know, I would come off calm and next thing you know, boom, I would lose. Really? Yeah. Oh, real quick. So she wasn't used to a man, any man in her life being able to articulate what he's thinking or what he's feeling with composure. With calm. Yeah, composure.

You know, I would come off calm and next thing you know, boom, I would lose. Really? Yeah. Oh, real quick. So she wasn't used to a man, any man in her life being able to articulate what he's thinking or what he's feeling with composure. With calm. Yeah, composure.

From a man. Because typically, what? We have to be what? Only masculine. Exuding attributes of strength, boldness, and aggression. So I chose to be comprehensive that moment in the car. She gets out the car. looks at me and says, you're the most emotional man I ever met. And boom, slams the car door and walks into the grocery store.

From a man. Because typically, what? We have to be what? Only masculine. Exuding attributes of strength, boldness, and aggression. So I chose to be comprehensive that moment in the car. She gets out the car. looks at me and says, you're the most emotional man I ever met. And boom, slams the car door and walks into the grocery store.

Yeah, seriously.

Yeah, seriously.

To be shamed for your emotions. Yeah, it was very devastating. I got very angry, which I call is the surface emotion for men. You know, it's the emotion we can go to the fastest without going and digging deeper to what we're really feeling. So what were you really feeling? I was hurt. Yeah. Okay, here it is. I'm trying to become a better man. I knew I was, as a father, just discipline only driven.

To be shamed for your emotions. Yeah, it was very devastating. I got very angry, which I call is the surface emotion for men. You know, it's the emotion we can go to the fastest without going and digging deeper to what we're really feeling. So what were you really feeling? I was hurt. Yeah. Okay, here it is. I'm trying to become a better man. I knew I was, as a father, just discipline only driven.

I wasn't there emotionally for my daughter during the year. She needed a lover more so than a disciplinarian. And she didn't feel that she was the apple of my eye, yet the worm in the apple. And so here it is as a man, I'm doing this hard work. I'm sitting in this car. Trying to evolve. Yeah, and I'm saying, you know what? I'm going to go back to being this demonstrative, quick-tempered.

I wasn't there emotionally for my daughter during the year. She needed a lover more so than a disciplinarian. And she didn't feel that she was the apple of my eye, yet the worm in the apple. And so here it is as a man, I'm doing this hard work. I'm sitting in this car. Trying to evolve. Yeah, and I'm saying, you know what? I'm going to go back to being this demonstrative, quick-tempered.