Jason Wilson
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267 appearances
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first heard Jan 2025
last heard 25 Dec
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So what does that mean? He's a nurturer. He's compassionate. He's caring. Those aren't soft attributes. Some of the greatest warriors had both. You know, that's why I said be a comprehensive man, be strong, but sensitive, be courageous, but also compassionate. You have to have boom. You want to be multifaceted, not what I call monofaceted. You can only do one thing.
And because of that, so many men are stuck in first gear in life. You know, that first gear is that's the masculine gear to get you from stop to start and get you going. But what happens then? Do you stay in that gear if you're driving that car? No, you'll burn out your clutch. That's what so many men are on the edge of suicide today, because everything is by your strength, by your will.
You're only identified by your accomplishments instead of who you are. That's why you can't rest. You can't find peace. And I often say peace has to be within you before it's around you. So there's many, I believe, reasons for why we are where we are as men. The biggest fear of us is really doing the introspective work to find the healing that we desire and deserve.
My wife did it. Again, the struggle comes in with men is the process. So the same way we have to unlearn what we've been deceived to believe a man is, We have to give our wives or the women in our lives that same grace to unlearn what they've been doing.
And a lot of times as men are breaking free from what I call emotional incarceration, if they face a woman or in a relationship where she just say impassively dismisses a moment where he is transparent with how he's feeling, now he wants to go back into the ways where he was hardened.
And I tell him, no, no, it's not time to retreat back to that cell, that mental jail cell where you know there is no peace.
So don't be with that woman. Yeah, so a lot of men, we, see, we're changing for the wrong reasons. When I made the journey into comprehensive manhood, I had to change for myself. One moment, I'll never forget, my wife and I, we were in the car, we were arguing, and this was when I was learning how to become a verbal processor, how to express what I'm feeling without yelling or hitting things.
So you used to be what, a suppressor or angry? Passive aggressive.
You know, I would come off calm and next thing you know, boom, I would lose. Really? Yeah. Oh, real quick. So she wasn't used to a man, any man in her life being able to articulate what he's thinking or what he's feeling with composure. With calm. Yeah, composure.
From a man. Because typically, what? We have to be what? Only masculine. Exuding attributes of strength, boldness, and aggression. So I chose to be comprehensive that moment in the car. She gets out the car. looks at me and says, you're the most emotional man I ever met. And boom, slams the car door and walks into the grocery store.
Yeah, seriously.
To be shamed for your emotions. Yeah, it was very devastating. I got very angry, which I call is the surface emotion for men. You know, it's the emotion we can go to the fastest without going and digging deeper to what we're really feeling. So what were you really feeling? I was hurt. Yeah. Okay, here it is. I'm trying to become a better man. I knew I was, as a father, just discipline only driven.
I wasn't there emotionally for my daughter during the year. She needed a lover more so than a disciplinarian. And she didn't feel that she was the apple of my eye, yet the worm in the apple. And so here it is as a man, I'm doing this hard work. I'm sitting in this car. Trying to evolve. Yeah, and I'm saying, you know what? I'm going to go back to being this demonstrative, quick-tempered.
Peasant aggressive. Yeah, husband. And in that moment, I realized, like, wait a minute. I'm doing this for me, not you. As a byproduct, you'll benefit and the children will benefit. But I need to do it for me because as soon as you don't appreciate my effort, I'm going to digress back into that mental cell. That was a pivotal moment in my journey. Wow.
And I stayed on the course until I finished it. And of course, I'm still evolving.
Life wasn't worth living, man, just to be real with you. I compare it to, you know, the box of eight crayons you'll see, and then you have the box of 64. As men, we tend to gravitate towards the box of eight. And so I compare those crayons to emotions. And out of the eight, we may use four of them.
But women have access to 64, and we do too, but their entire life they've been affirmed in expressing those emotions. So then when it comes to communication between man and woman, she is requesting violet, but all you have is purple. So you can't even meet the moment there. And also instead of, even in relationships with men, If a man offends me, I don't just go to anger.
I go to the real emotion of my brother, you know, that offended me. Why don't you trust me in this business deal?
now the conversation now is here no one has to have their guard up guards are dropped now we can communicate as human beings i got tired of having to be stuck in masculine mode all day every day having to live life in a performance-based mentality there's no rest there a man can even take a nap when you live that way. So it was easy decision to make. Was the journey a challenge at times?
I would say 46, maybe.
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