Jason Wilson
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Put the ego aside and start building your kingdom. I am a living testimony that it works. But you have to put that aside. And any mature woman will tell you it's more than money that's going to make that marriage. And so.
No, because, I mean, that's like she's a single mother almost. You know, a woman needs to feel protected. She needs shelter. She needs a covering. You know, as a man of God, you know, Christ is my head. I'm the head of my wife. So it has to have some order for a woman. A woman wants stability. She wants to feel that things will be okay.
No, because, I mean, that's like she's a single mother almost. You know, a woman needs to feel protected. She needs shelter. She needs a covering. You know, as a man of God, you know, Christ is my head. I'm the head of my wife. So it has to have some order for a woman. A woman wants stability. She wants to feel that things will be okay.
But if you're not stable, especially emotionally, again, you can't, you won't be able to make money if you're emotionally unstable. And so, no, to your point, you need to know how to provide and protect, even if you're not making the money that you want to bring to the table, but just doing something. I tell men who are unemployed, still get up like you have a job.
But if you're not stable, especially emotionally, again, you can't, you won't be able to make money if you're emotionally unstable. And so, no, to your point, you need to know how to provide and protect, even if you're not making the money that you want to bring to the table, but just doing something. I tell men who are unemployed, still get up like you have a job.
Get dressed and leave the house until you get a job. Never become comfortable sitting still at home.
Get dressed and leave the house until you get a job. Never become comfortable sitting still at home.
I believe it's, again, of going to the cause and effect psychology, what's causing them to be disconnected with being that provider, going out, having that work ethic. Every man that I talk to that I have a friend of mine who gets laid off often, not laid off, get fired from jobs. He's really good. But until we could help him feel like, what's causing you to lose so many jobs?
I believe it's, again, of going to the cause and effect psychology, what's causing them to be disconnected with being that provider, going out, having that work ethic. Every man that I talk to that I have a friend of mine who gets laid off often, not laid off, get fired from jobs. He's really good. But until we could help him feel like, what's causing you to lose so many jobs?
To dig and go deep to, wait a minute, it was my fear of failure due to what happened as a child here. A lot of men are lazy not because they don't have the work ethic per se, but because they have lost the desire to live. Why have they lost the desire? A lot of times it's due to childhood trauma or situations or circumstances present losses that they haven't been able to let go of.
To dig and go deep to, wait a minute, it was my fear of failure due to what happened as a child here. A lot of men are lazy not because they don't have the work ethic per se, but because they have lost the desire to live. Why have they lost the desire? A lot of times it's due to childhood trauma or situations or circumstances present losses that they haven't been able to let go of.
And I mean, I know you see it, guys. Now you're going off to drinking and other vices now just to find some peace or some freedom. So it's not, I don't think it's laziness in all cases. Laziness does exist. But when you see a man just dejected and discontented with life, it's much deeper than him just being lazy. And every time I work with a man to help him get to his cause and effect,
And I mean, I know you see it, guys. Now you're going off to drinking and other vices now just to find some peace or some freedom. So it's not, I don't think it's laziness in all cases. Laziness does exist. But when you see a man just dejected and discontented with life, it's much deeper than him just being lazy. And every time I work with a man to help him get to his cause and effect,
Starts finding reasons to live again. You know, I'm off to say you're not tired of living. You're tired of not living. So finding out that that piece right there. What's what am what am I? Why am I not living? What's happening here? And when a man finds that answer, he starts walking out of, you know, what I call emotional incarceration and starts to live.
Starts finding reasons to live again. You know, I'm off to say you're not tired of living. You're tired of not living. So finding out that that piece right there. What's what am what am I? Why am I not living? What's happening here? And when a man finds that answer, he starts walking out of, you know, what I call emotional incarceration and starts to live.
And there'll be setbacks, but as long as he keeps walking out, he'll be fine. But I don't believe it's just laziness.
And there'll be setbacks, but as long as he keeps walking out, he'll be fine. But I don't believe it's just laziness.
Oh, yeah, man. It's... I can't tell you how many times when I share this information with men at conferences and they'll say, well, what happens if your girl, you know, disrespects you and calls you weak or soft? And I tell them, you've been blessed. And the whole audience has started laughing. She's not your girl. She's not. Be thankful. Do not compromise who you really are for anyone.
Oh, yeah, man. It's... I can't tell you how many times when I share this information with men at conferences and they'll say, well, what happens if your girl, you know, disrespects you and calls you weak or soft? And I tell them, you've been blessed. And the whole audience has started laughing. She's not your girl. She's not. Be thankful. Do not compromise who you really are for anyone.
But the most unhappiest people I've ever met are people-pleasers. Yeah, it's true. So there's no silence in that. Mm-hmm. So, you know, again, you don't want to be authentic and you an a-hole. You know what I mean? That's not comprehensive. It's not comprehensive. And so, again, you want with myβI talk about the four R's in this book, you know, processβ