Jason

So I recently got engaged. My fiance and I are both 36 years old. We're looking to start a Brady Bunch. We've got five kids between 10 and 12 between us.

So I recently got engaged. My fiance and I are both 36 years old. We're looking to start a Brady Bunch. We've got five kids between 10 and 12 between us.

Yeah, I have twin sons who are 11, and she has a 10-year-old, 11-year-old, and 12-year-old.

Yeah, I have twin sons who are 11, and she has a 10-year-old, 11-year-old, and 12-year-old.

Yeah, I have twin sons who are 11, and she has a 10-year-old, 11-year-old, and 12-year-old.

Yeah, it's been really fun. So the reason I'm calling is because we have a pretty large difference in assets. And I think based on your advice, the advice would be that we should get a prenup. So I have roughly $12 million, and she has roughly $50,000. And so we started the process of looking into a prenup and it's been an emotional one. And I totally understand why.

Yeah, it's been really fun. So the reason I'm calling is because we have a pretty large difference in assets. And I think based on your advice, the advice would be that we should get a prenup. So I have roughly $12 million, and she has roughly $50,000. And so we started the process of looking into a prenup and it's been an emotional one. And I totally understand why.

Yeah, it's been really fun. So the reason I'm calling is because we have a pretty large difference in assets. And I think based on your advice, the advice would be that we should get a prenup. So I have roughly $12 million, and she has roughly $50,000. And so we started the process of looking into a prenup and it's been an emotional one. And I totally understand why.

And I think especially like we went through a questionnaire talking together about it. But then when we got the first draft back from my lawyer, that's when she's really not been feeling good about it. And I understand the concern. So, I mean, she feels like. I wouldn't be fully entering the marriage in the same way that she is.

And I think especially like we went through a questionnaire talking together about it. But then when we got the first draft back from my lawyer, that's when she's really not been feeling good about it. And I understand the concern. So, I mean, she feels like. I wouldn't be fully entering the marriage in the same way that she is.

And I think especially like we went through a questionnaire talking together about it. But then when we got the first draft back from my lawyer, that's when she's really not been feeling good about it. And I understand the concern. So, I mean, she feels like. I wouldn't be fully entering the marriage in the same way that she is.

Cause it feels like I'm holding assets, uh, like separately off to the side. Um, and I'm sensitive to that. And especially in some of the contexts of her, um, former relationships. And so I'm just looking for maybe more clarity and, uh, like what you guys would recommend.

Cause it feels like I'm holding assets, uh, like separately off to the side. Um, and I'm sensitive to that. And especially in some of the contexts of her, um, former relationships. And so I'm just looking for maybe more clarity and, uh, like what you guys would recommend.

Cause it feels like I'm holding assets, uh, like separately off to the side. Um, and I'm sensitive to that. And especially in some of the contexts of her, um, former relationships. And so I'm just looking for maybe more clarity and, uh, like what you guys would recommend.

Yeah. Yes. And I think especially like, you know, her kids as well, too. And it's something that I want to address. And I think we could address like in a will or like some other document or method after we get married. And it's something that I want to do. Like, I absolutely would want her and her kids to be taken care of, too, if something, you know, didn't happen to us.

Yeah. Yes. And I think especially like, you know, her kids as well, too. And it's something that I want to address. And I think we could address like in a will or like some other document or method after we get married. And it's something that I want to do. Like, I absolutely would want her and her kids to be taken care of, too, if something, you know, didn't happen to us.

Yeah. Yes. And I think especially like, you know, her kids as well, too. And it's something that I want to address. And I think we could address like in a will or like some other document or method after we get married. And it's something that I want to do. Like, I absolutely would want her and her kids to be taken care of, too, if something, you know, didn't happen to us.

I think it also it feels very condescending to her that like the either she and I don't see it being a problem for her at all. Like, my goal in this, and I think that's what your advice is, is that in our case, that I know is rare, it would help protect our marriage. And that's what I want to do.

I think it also it feels very condescending to her that like the either she and I don't see it being a problem for her at all. Like, my goal in this, and I think that's what your advice is, is that in our case, that I know is rare, it would help protect our marriage. And that's what I want to do.

I think it also it feels very condescending to her that like the either she and I don't see it being a problem for her at all. Like, my goal in this, and I think that's what your advice is, is that in our case, that I know is rare, it would help protect our marriage. And that's what I want to do.