Jay-Jay Feeney

Yeah.

Let's leave the pros and cons for a minute.

What happens?

A few of my friends in discussions over the years have said they've caught their partner watching porn and they're so mad about it.

And I'm like, but why?

And they don't really have a justifiable answer, in my opinion.

Why do you think...

and I know you've caught your partner, so we'll ask you that in a minute, but why do you think people are so mad when they catch their partner watching porn?

Not everyone, obviously, but the ones that are.

But if we go back to something you said in a previous episode about, like, if you're not in the mood and your partner is, and so you give them permission to go off and have a wink.

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

Well, maybe porn is the only way that they can get off.

that's like that's what feels good for me then you need to have a conversation about that if it's honestly when we start bringing secrecy lying that's when it feels really sticky and gross but some guys might have to like make it a secret because their partner's really really against porn you know so then that's a hard one because like they don't want to they don't want it to be a secret but they sort of maybe need it perhaps every now and then or and but their partner is so dead against that they can't share with them but that's what they're doing

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Okay, now it's time to tell me what happened when you caught your partner watching porn.

Let us go back to this time.

How long ago was it?

It wasn't role play.

Wait.

Okay, wait.