Jay Shetty

It's like when Jimmy saw you fail...

And you were already embarrassed and upset that you failed.

And he said, no, you're an album, not a single.

That was love when you failed.

So when we fail, you need to be held, but you still hold yourself to high standards.

And so the way I look at it is we've got to help young people and everyone, but we have to help young people and ourselves hold ourselves to high standards and

And then have high grace when it goes wrong.

Because if you don't have the high grace when it goes wrong, the best example of this was Roger Federer talked about this at Dartmouth at his commencement speech at the university.

And he said that when I'm playing a point, it's the most important point in the world.

Mm-hmm.

He goes, as soon as I win or lose the point, it is the least important point in the world.

Like I have to play the point, like my life depends on it.

And as soon as that point is over, I'm going to move on to the next point.

Because if I'm thinking about that last point, I'm not going to be able to play this point.

And then I'm going to lose the next point again.

And he was just like, that's the only way.

And I think it's more about rather than hype and encouragement, it's more about teaching people to be present and teaching people to have high standards and then teaching people that, hey, if you failed once, like in Silicon Valley,

I just, what's your next idea?

Let's go.

So I don't think it's like, oh, you're amazing.