Jay Shetty

Don't worry.

Like, you know, Jimmy wasn't like, you're amazing.

You're so special.

And this was just a tough moment in the, it wasn't like, it was like, no, you failed, but let's go again.

You know?

And I think that's the mindset that we need is not mollycoddling and fake loving and over fake compassion, which only makes people weaker.

You know, and it would have done that to you.

So anyway, I don't know if that makes sense, but.

I get it.

I get it.

And I think that's what I'm saying.

You have to have high standards.

If you don't have high standards, you'll never achieve anything great.

But then you have to have high grace because that actually, what it does, what high grace does is your rebound time is quicker.

So if you have high standards, but then you have high hatred for yourself, you actually can beat yourself up for longer and kind of stay in that dark place.

Whereas if you have a high grace period, then you're like, all right, let's rebound.

But I get what you're saying too.

Like I have high standards.

I'm harsh on myself.

I'm not.