Jay Shetty

Is this going to work?

And then finding resolution through that.

And I'm assuming that there's been times when you've needed to rely on each other, as you said, because you're the only ones who can understand, and times when you've needed to rely on family and beyond that.

Have you found that helpful to talk about Trigg naturally whenever he comes to both of your minds?

When you lose someone you so deeply love, what are, for you, hurtful things people say and what are helpful things people say?

Because I think when people lose someone, no one knows really what to say.

Emily, what have I not asked you today that you wish I did?

There were many reasons why I wanted to speak today.

One was to truly get to understand what you've gone through and to expand our compassion and heart and empathy towards you and love towards you and also just this

wonderful service that you have and purpose that you have to want to make people aware using your loss and pain that you've gone through to actually help others and keep them aware and I think it's really

really powerful that you've chosen to do that.

A loss like this can make you want to be 100% vigilant and 100% like just never leave Teddy's side in this scenario.

And obviously that's not only not realistic, it's not possible.

Genuinely, I'm just so sorry for your loss and also just not only did Trig not deserve it, you didn't either and neither did your family and so I really hope that parents who listen to this will share it with others and people who want to be parents will be thoughtful about these things and

I'm really thankful that you're using your voice and the challenges and struggle you've been through to help others because it's so important, so needed.

So thank you, Emily.

Thank you so much.

the beautiful lessons you've given us today in how grief never really goes away, how grief can coexist with joy, with love, with reminiscing, and how you want to continue to celebrate the light that Trigg is and continues to be in all the people that knew him and all the people that will continue to know him through his story.

Yeah.

And so thank you, Emily.