Menu
Sign In Search Podcasts Charts People & Topics Add Podcast API Blog Pricing

Jay

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
843 total appearances

Appearances Over Time

Podcast Appearances

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

I get New York Times for free through my college, but they don't include the games and I'm a crossword guy. And so I had to pay for the games.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

I don't know. I never really had a job in high school, but I also I never had money. I just never had money to spend. Like I just got whatever my parents gave me.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

I don't know. I never really had a job in high school, but I also I never had money. I just never had money to spend. Like I just got whatever my parents gave me.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

I don't know. I never really had a job in high school, but I also I never had money. I just never had money to spend. Like I just got whatever my parents gave me.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

And I knew at that point that I had no safety net. I had no backup. So I think once I got to that stage and then realized that I'm on my own 100%, it probably developed over time.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

And I knew at that point that I had no safety net. I had no backup. So I think once I got to that stage and then realized that I'm on my own 100%, it probably developed over time.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

And I knew at that point that I had no safety net. I had no backup. So I think once I got to that stage and then realized that I'm on my own 100%, it probably developed over time.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

As a young adult child of divorce, you get a window into your parents' lives that you didn't have before. And one of the things I saw was their finances. Neither of them knew how credit card interest worked. They were paying minimum payments on like $10,000, $20,000 of credit card debt. And I realized at that point that my parents were fucked.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

As a young adult child of divorce, you get a window into your parents' lives that you didn't have before. And one of the things I saw was their finances. Neither of them knew how credit card interest worked. They were paying minimum payments on like $10,000, $20,000 of credit card debt. And I realized at that point that my parents were fucked.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

As a young adult child of divorce, you get a window into your parents' lives that you didn't have before. And one of the things I saw was their finances. Neither of them knew how credit card interest worked. They were paying minimum payments on like $10,000, $20,000 of credit card debt. And I realized at that point that my parents were fucked.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

Like my mom, her retirement plan was my stepdad who was in the Navy and would have a pension. She had no retirement savings whatsoever. She'd been a waitress. So she had nothing, no retirement plans whatsoever. So that I think contributed significantly to the way that I view money. And like my mother spends very frivolously, like unbelievable money. It's addictive almost, right?

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

Like my mom, her retirement plan was my stepdad who was in the Navy and would have a pension. She had no retirement savings whatsoever. She'd been a waitress. So she had nothing, no retirement plans whatsoever. So that I think contributed significantly to the way that I view money. And like my mother spends very frivolously, like unbelievable money. It's addictive almost, right?

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

Like my mom, her retirement plan was my stepdad who was in the Navy and would have a pension. She had no retirement savings whatsoever. She'd been a waitress. So she had nothing, no retirement plans whatsoever. So that I think contributed significantly to the way that I view money. And like my mother spends very frivolously, like unbelievable money. It's addictive almost, right?

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

Like she's buying things to sate some kind of desire.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

Like she's buying things to sate some kind of desire.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

Like she's buying things to sate some kind of desire.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

I remember, for example, for Christmases, my mother would buy my stepdad and I, it would be no exaggeration to say between 10 and 15 presents each. And they're like, it's not like a deck of cards. It's sometimes expensive things. And then she'd buy a joint gift. Okay, we're a family of three. Joint gifts included. Trampoline. Full-sized. A basketball court. To reiterate, I am an academic.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

I remember, for example, for Christmases, my mother would buy my stepdad and I, it would be no exaggeration to say between 10 and 15 presents each. And they're like, it's not like a deck of cards. It's sometimes expensive things. And then she'd buy a joint gift. Okay, we're a family of three. Joint gifts included. Trampoline. Full-sized. A basketball court. To reiterate, I am an academic.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

I remember, for example, for Christmases, my mother would buy my stepdad and I, it would be no exaggeration to say between 10 and 15 presents each. And they're like, it's not like a deck of cards. It's sometimes expensive things. And then she'd buy a joint gift. Okay, we're a family of three. Joint gifts included. Trampoline. Full-sized. A basketball court. To reiterate, I am an academic.

What We Spend
The Price of Parenthood

Even as a young boy, I think I leaned that direction, not towards basketball. I didn't know this, but I put it together now. They were spending all of their disposable income basically as it came.