Jeff Guenther

I can't tell you specific ones, but I can tell you ones that I'm like, give me their names.

I mean, there's like typical ones, I guess.

Like, I don't want you to know about all of my Amazon purchases.

Right.

Yeah.

Yeah, and we make, you know, a lot of little, whatever, online shopping purchases.

And it's kind of like, what, you want me to tell you every single purchase I make?

But do you also want me to tell you every single thought that I have in my head?

That is ridiculous.

Yeah, because that is just like too much.

That's oversharing.

And I need some sort of form of like privacy and independence.

But then if you go all the way over to like,

well, we've been married, we just got married, and I didn't tell you about my $250,000 in debt or my gambling addiction.

Okay.

Those are two very different things.

So I spend a lot of time talking to couples about how are you going to split up money?

Are you going to have a shared bank account and separate bank accounts?

And that takes a lot of negotiating.

But typically, I think most people want some form of privacy.