Jefferson Fisher

That's the kind of thing I want to put out in the world. That's the thing I want to be consistent with rule number two in how I spread my vibe, my energy. I like calm energy, not hype, not being crazy, not being aggressive, just the sense of calm.

comfort and calm and feeling like i'm always in the pocket when i feel like i'm giving people ease that that fills me up when i feel like they can just be calm with me and just sit and give them security and peace and rest for a little bit in the conversation that's the kind of stuff that touches me so i've i had to build all over i'm going to make sure that the difficult conversations are things i never shy away from ever ever ever ever that does not mean that i'm not going to handle them well

comfort and calm and feeling like i'm always in the pocket when i feel like i'm giving people ease that that fills me up when i feel like they can just be calm with me and just sit and give them security and peace and rest for a little bit in the conversation that's the kind of stuff that touches me so i've i had to build all over i'm going to make sure that the difficult conversations are things i never shy away from ever ever ever ever that does not mean that i'm not going to handle them well

comfort and calm and feeling like i'm always in the pocket when i feel like i'm giving people ease that that fills me up when i feel like they can just be calm with me and just sit and give them security and peace and rest for a little bit in the conversation that's the kind of stuff that touches me so i've i had to build all over i'm going to make sure that the difficult conversations are things i never shy away from ever ever ever ever that does not mean that i'm not going to handle them well

And there's going to be times I'm not going to handle them well. It is trial and error like anything else because each person is different. Each person is different. I can't have a difficult conversation and apply the same rules to everybody. Everybody has a different personality.

And there's going to be times I'm not going to handle them well. It is trial and error like anything else because each person is different. Each person is different. I can't have a difficult conversation and apply the same rules to everybody. Everybody has a different personality.

And there's going to be times I'm not going to handle them well. It is trial and error like anything else because each person is different. Each person is different. I can't have a difficult conversation and apply the same rules to everybody. Everybody has a different personality.

So if I had to build it all from scratch, I'm going to welcome the difficult conversations because those are the things that... life is about. That's the thing that grows everyone. These are the things of what makes life beautiful.

So if I had to build it all from scratch, I'm going to welcome the difficult conversations because those are the things that... life is about. That's the thing that grows everyone. These are the things of what makes life beautiful.

So if I had to build it all from scratch, I'm going to welcome the difficult conversations because those are the things that... life is about. That's the thing that grows everyone. These are the things of what makes life beautiful.

You have the hard conversations because when you come out on the other side of them, there are just better things that you feel like you can be really proud of yourself about. When it comes to difficult conversations, another thing that I would make sure that I do, and we talk about this in rule number three of my book, is creating your manual.

You have the hard conversations because when you come out on the other side of them, there are just better things that you feel like you can be really proud of yourself about. When it comes to difficult conversations, another thing that I would make sure that I do, and we talk about this in rule number three of my book, is creating your manual.

You have the hard conversations because when you come out on the other side of them, there are just better things that you feel like you can be really proud of yourself about. When it comes to difficult conversations, another thing that I would make sure that I do, and we talk about this in rule number three of my book, is creating your manual.

Rather than giving somebody my remote control for my emotions, I'm going to start my manual very early. Meaning these are my do's and my don'ts, my instructions, my rules of the game for how to communicate with me and how I'm going to communicate with others. That might mean I need to set aside my extremes.

Rather than giving somebody my remote control for my emotions, I'm going to start my manual very early. Meaning these are my do's and my don'ts, my instructions, my rules of the game for how to communicate with me and how I'm going to communicate with others. That might mean I need to set aside my extremes.

Rather than giving somebody my remote control for my emotions, I'm going to start my manual very early. Meaning these are my do's and my don'ts, my instructions, my rules of the game for how to communicate with me and how I'm going to communicate with others. That might mean I need to set aside my extremes.

I will always do X, Y, and Z. I will never X, Y, and Z. When I have a, I do not accept, I do not allow, I do not X, I mean, you name it. I'm going to have my, my encyclopedia here of where I need to have a reference guide of if you want to talk to me, here's my manual. So instead of this, you can't talk to me that way.

I will always do X, Y, and Z. I will never X, Y, and Z. When I have a, I do not accept, I do not allow, I do not X, I mean, you name it. I'm going to have my, my encyclopedia here of where I need to have a reference guide of if you want to talk to me, here's my manual. So instead of this, you can't talk to me that way.

I will always do X, Y, and Z. I will never X, Y, and Z. When I have a, I do not accept, I do not allow, I do not X, I mean, you name it. I'm going to have my, my encyclopedia here of where I need to have a reference guide of if you want to talk to me, here's my manual. So instead of this, you can't talk to me that way.

My manual, if you go to page 8, line 3, paragraph D, you're going to see I don't accept that tone. You hear how that's very different? That's the kind of thing I would start to build right away is making sure I have my manual. I'm not going to people please. I'm not going to feel like I am just getting walked over, that I can't speak or be assertive enough.