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Jefferson Fisher

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The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

And I'd say, probably not, mama. You know, they've done X, Y, and Z, and they can't, you know. And she'd go, well, I still think you should be kind. I mean, that was the daily thesis, just the daily motivation drop from my mother

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

almost every other day it felt like and it was such a good framework for me of instead of seeing how I can buy it back against somebody instead of her going you know what they are the worst Jefferson you know what you're right they are so terrible it's not like she wasn't in my corner of course as a parent you're going to be in your in your children's corner if my daughter

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

almost every other day it felt like and it was such a good framework for me of instead of seeing how I can buy it back against somebody instead of her going you know what they are the worst Jefferson you know what you're right they are so terrible it's not like she wasn't in my corner of course as a parent you're going to be in your in your children's corner if my daughter

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

almost every other day it felt like and it was such a good framework for me of instead of seeing how I can buy it back against somebody instead of her going you know what they are the worst Jefferson you know what you're right they are so terrible it's not like she wasn't in my corner of course as a parent you're going to be in your in your children's corner if my daughter

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

says somebody is mean and they've committed a wrong, I mean, my daughter's five, but let's say she came home and said, you know what? Hey, Genevieve is mean. I'd be like, yeah, she is. If she's on your list, she's on my list, girl. It's not that my mom wasn't in that camp. She was always looking out for me of, what are you holding, Jefferson? What are you carrying with you? What are you holding?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

says somebody is mean and they've committed a wrong, I mean, my daughter's five, but let's say she came home and said, you know what? Hey, Genevieve is mean. I'd be like, yeah, she is. If she's on your list, she's on my list, girl. It's not that my mom wasn't in that camp. She was always looking out for me of, what are you holding, Jefferson? What are you carrying with you? What are you holding?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

says somebody is mean and they've committed a wrong, I mean, my daughter's five, but let's say she came home and said, you know what? Hey, Genevieve is mean. I'd be like, yeah, she is. If she's on your list, she's on my list, girl. It's not that my mom wasn't in that camp. She was always looking out for me of, what are you holding, Jefferson? What are you carrying with you? What are you holding?

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

I mean, she had these cutting eyes that would always explore the, what are you holding onto? Because yes, is there a time and place that you just wanna put somebody in their place? You just wanna tell it like it is? And they need to understand and send that zinger? Yes, I get it. I get it, it's natural. There's nothing on its face wrong with that.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

I mean, she had these cutting eyes that would always explore the, what are you holding onto? Because yes, is there a time and place that you just wanna put somebody in their place? You just wanna tell it like it is? And they need to understand and send that zinger? Yes, I get it. I get it, it's natural. There's nothing on its face wrong with that.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

I mean, she had these cutting eyes that would always explore the, what are you holding onto? Because yes, is there a time and place that you just wanna put somebody in their place? You just wanna tell it like it is? And they need to understand and send that zinger? Yes, I get it. I get it, it's natural. There's nothing on its face wrong with that.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

There are some people who need to be put in their place, period. The bigger moral of the story is, Time's going to pass. You're going to say the thing to someone, and time's going to pass. And you know who's going to remember it? You. You're the one who's going to remember what you said to them. They might forget, but you'll remember. And you're going to remember how you felt long after it.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

There are some people who need to be put in their place, period. The bigger moral of the story is, Time's going to pass. You're going to say the thing to someone, and time's going to pass. And you know who's going to remember it? You. You're the one who's going to remember what you said to them. They might forget, but you'll remember. And you're going to remember how you felt long after it.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

There are some people who need to be put in their place, period. The bigger moral of the story is, Time's going to pass. You're going to say the thing to someone, and time's going to pass. And you know who's going to remember it? You. You're the one who's going to remember what you said to them. They might forget, but you'll remember. And you're going to remember how you felt long after it.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

I can remember even now thinking of things maybe I said in high school, and I look back on it now and go, why did I even waste my breath? Why did I say that? What I think was going to happen, they're going to change everything about them. They're going to say, oh my gosh, Jefferson, you're so right. You're so correct. Thank you for embarrassing me and trying to make me feel bad.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

I can remember even now thinking of things maybe I said in high school, and I look back on it now and go, why did I even waste my breath? Why did I say that? What I think was going to happen, they're going to change everything about them. They're going to say, oh my gosh, Jefferson, you're so right. You're so correct. Thank you for embarrassing me and trying to make me feel bad.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

I can remember even now thinking of things maybe I said in high school, and I look back on it now and go, why did I even waste my breath? Why did I say that? What I think was going to happen, they're going to change everything about them. They're going to say, oh my gosh, Jefferson, you're so right. You're so correct. Thank you for embarrassing me and trying to make me feel bad.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

Oh, yes, I definitely changed my mind. That never happens, ever. I said it for myself. I said it for me so it would feel good. It feels good in that moment. It will not feel good later. So don't be the one that is left holding the consequences of words that you can't take back. All right? Number three. Here are lessons that I apply in my daily routine with me and my wife and our two kids.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

Oh, yes, I definitely changed my mind. That never happens, ever. I said it for myself. I said it for me so it would feel good. It feels good in that moment. It will not feel good later. So don't be the one that is left holding the consequences of words that you can't take back. All right? Number three. Here are lessons that I apply in my daily routine with me and my wife and our two kids.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

Oh, yes, I definitely changed my mind. That never happens, ever. I said it for myself. I said it for me so it would feel good. It feels good in that moment. It will not feel good later. So don't be the one that is left holding the consequences of words that you can't take back. All right? Number three. Here are lessons that I apply in my daily routine with me and my wife and our two kids.

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
The 3 Parenting Skills That Shape Future Communicators

And it's this, let them argue. If you have more than one kid and they're bickering back and forth, we have the mindset of you let them do it. From a distance, it's not like you're not managing it, but you need to let them talk it out. Just because they're disagreeing does not mean you need to immediately come in and go, uh-uh, that's enough. Y'all cut it out. Y'all be nice.